It has nothing to do with her. She is great. I love her with all of my heart. I just don't like sex. I don't see the point in getting naked and sticking your **** in someone. It was cool for the first few times I had sex, but it's just not my thing.
2007-05-15 22:38:29 · 18 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be fair, I cant think of anything I would like less than what you are suggesting, no sex with your gf is madness, not only from the standpoint of that it is one of the most enjoyable and intimate things you can do with a partner.
As for telling your gf, she will be crushed probably, it will look like you don't like her, that she repulses you, and that you lack the abililty to be ontimate with her. She will think that you are doing it with someone else, and that she must be bad at it too, oh and she'll probably sleep with someone else, because if she has a sex drive that is higher than yours, and you are not giving her what she needs, she's gonna go else where for it.
Good luck
2007-05-15 22:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Retro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 16:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her now, as soon as possible. She may not like sex either, or she may take a walk, but at least you'll know. Let her know, too, if you like doing other things, like kissing, or if the whole thing turns you off. That's only fair to her. Tell her, "I love you, I think you're beautiful, but I don't like having sex. It doesn't appeal to me, and I don't expect that to change."
2007-05-15 22:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her then. And let someone else have sex with her. Im sure shel find someone actually feels an attraction to her.
2007-05-15 22:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you MUST be honest here tell her how you feel and why, talking about it with her will show her that you truly love her, Be honest with yourself and her but give her time to process the thought of it when you have told her assure her that its not because of her you don't like it...help each other........
BE HONEST !!!!!!!
2007-05-15 22:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by johnny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why anyone wouldn't like sex, but if that's how you feel then you should just tell her. Maybe she will understand but she probably won't.
2007-05-15 22:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight.. no point cheating her and most of all do thing that u dont enjoy
2007-05-15 22:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by danizick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her maybe she'll understand.....if she doesn't then find someone else coz relationships are for love and understanding
2007-05-15 22:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like sex? Bullet to the head!!!! That's all I can say. I'll nail your girl for you!
2007-05-15 22:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, somethings wrong here!
R U shure you really love her?
Do you ever get a hard on?
Maybe ur gay!
2007-05-15 22:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋