they are always interested in me in e 2nd date but after the 3rd date, they lost interest and move on to new girls...and theres no sex between us as yet...
2007-05-15 22:36:57 · 11 answers · asked by gurmet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because youre dating the BAD GUYS.
2007-05-15 22:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by broz215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to have sex to keep a guy interested... but it definately helps. When he takes you out on a date, he sees that he is doing a favour for you, a second date means that he is doing more of a favour for you and by the third date - the one favour he wants from you doesn't happen... it's just too much work (or money) to go on dates with you. It's either that or he is still feeling no "connection" there... what is your personality like? Do you talk too much or are you very shy?
2007-05-16 05:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Dave F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most guys are ready to have sex on the first date and since you haven't given it up to them after the 3rd date they think there wasting there time. Just keep up what your doing because the guys that go past the 3rd take and not trying to get you in the sack all the time is the guy for you. Keep up the good work on not being a slutty girl.
2007-05-16 05:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by Air Force guy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just haven't met the right guy. Don't do sex on dating stage (well, actually i want to say: doing sex before marriage is a sin.) People may say that i am conventional, but i don't care.
Just be confident. Perhaps you want to think over again, what did you do that could make those guy not interested.. if it is only becos of sex.. then it is good for you that they left.. You will find someone who can respect you.
:-)
2007-05-16 05:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by what to ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might not be any sex but do u leave them with the assumption that u would an would be willing to have sex with them. Maybe u come on to strong why not go with the flow of things not saying be a slut an hook up with them but say what ur looking for an enjoy there company. Keep it interesting............sigh have u ever went on dates where it seemed like u do the same thing's............Do u come up with ideas for the dates or take intiative men hate girls who are always putting it on them as to what they would like to do for the date.............An lastly what do u bring to the table.......Do you work, Live alone with parents roomates, Are you resonsible. Men will have a fling with a girl who doesnt but won't make her there girlfriend!!!!!!
2007-05-16 05:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, the right guy will come your way. With respect to sex, what u r doing is right, 3 dates r too few to not only engage, but even to start thinking about sex.
2007-05-16 05:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Toon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rather obvious, isn't it? Try having sex BEFORE the 3rd date and see if that makes a difference?
2007-05-16 05:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sheet surfing on the first date
2007-05-16 05:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jackal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless someone is sycic i don think anyone can answer that!u need to ask them that those guys in the hope of changing to the best in the future...or maybe ur dating the wrong kind of...good luck
2007-05-16 05:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by David 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't met the right person yet!
2007-05-16 05:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋