i have been with this guy for 8 months now but i really dont love him but hes so great in bed. personality wise he is boring and dumb! what should i do?
2007-05-15 22:21:09 · 24 answers · asked by paris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him go
2007-05-15 22:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem a few months ago. the relationship was going nowhere but the sex was so good. I finally let go after about a year and now I have someone that's a great friend and the sex is even better than the last guy. I think you should go on and dump him.
2007-05-15 22:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends what u like doing ..
if it's only s**, then keep him ..
if it's not only abt the s** and you could do with a few mature and intelligent conversations and above all, spending quality time together, then it's probably worth dumping him - the new "interesting" guy could also be good in bed ..
take your chances .. why don't you dump him after finding a new boyfriend .. cuz given that he is dumb, he probably won't find out until you tell him "IT'S OVER !!"
2007-05-15 22:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by rhyme_n_shyne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly in case you like him then you fairly've too tell him what you like. I remember whilst me and female pal first started do the HANKY PANKY she did not understand what I enjoyed and that i did not understand what she enjoyed. After a whilst we've been given a experience for an further and now its like choreographed intercourse scene. do not basically ruin the adult males self belief because of the fact some dudes rely OF actuality maximum DUDES cant hand being criticized so your going to have too carry out a little hand shifting and directing quite.
2016-11-04 02:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There r so many guys out there good in bed and have nice personality too. So leave ur bf if u don't love him. And absolutely u'll find another great sexual life with someone u would love.
2007-05-15 22:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not into him anymore then you shouldn't be with him. Pretty much what your doing now is using him for sex, and all your going to end up doing is hurting him. You've only been together for 8 months, I wouldn't expect you to love him yet, but if he's not intriguing at all then you should probably move on.
2007-05-15 22:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by BluzGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him then you should dump him. A relationship isn't based on how good you are in bed. It's based on true, honest and sincere love dear. This love should be reciprocated from both sides too.
2007-05-15 22:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you stay with this guy because he is good in bed there is another guy who is everything you ever wanted (including good in bed) that you face losing by staying with the guy you're with. For your sake, and his... dump him!
2007-05-15 22:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Dave F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no perfect man (they're all taken, I hear). Think of what you'll be missing if you dump him. Except if you want to consider seeing him on the sly if you move on to a more interseting and less "dumb" person....
2007-05-15 22:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you dump him if your having such a great time in bed? Sex is 75% of the fun in a relationship (at least it is before your married). I have fun and @#$% his brains out!
2007-05-15 22:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by kingdante87 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you've got to leave him if you're thinking of a serious relationship. Or if you intent to stay on a bit more with him, let him know that it's only for the sex, and come clean with him!
2007-05-15 22:27:36 · answer #11 · answered by Afro Den 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋