I have known men that have cheated on their girlfriends or wife and usually it goes on for years that no one wants to give up the man. I have seen it twice when the man does not end up with niether one of the girls. Once I seen it happen when the man left his wife for the mistress and she took him to Australia so he would not go back to his wife.
2007-05-15 21:28:57 · 12 answers · asked by maria r 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Like they say...
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
But I would give him up, I would kick his ...
If he cheats on me, she can have him so he can cheat on her with another one, that's how I see it.
Trust is something that can't be fixed once it's broken.
2007-05-15 21:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by sweetera 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If someone cheats on you it is possible to make the relationship work again. The trust issue has been crossed so the person that cheated will be suspected more at least initially until they prove to be trustworthy again. It does truly depend on the persons involved though. If they both love each other, and are both willing to try it is worth saving the relationship. If the cheating is a routine issue then the person who is doing the cheating has commitment issues or a sexual problem and needs therapy to work through it. You don't forgive instantly. You may say you do, but when someone has cheated on you, you feel violated, and bad, then maybe angry at your partner, or even blame the person she cheated on with. Sometimes a person will stray for many reasons. You need to find out what they are, so you BOTH can work on repairing the relationship. Good luck to you both.
2016-05-19 18:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all are different. So, we can't just apply same rule to everyone. Some people do it once, some couple of times and some never do it.
So, its something very personal in choice to cheat or not and if cheat for long or they leave it early once they realize they are doing wrong to someone.
It takes a wise person to take a higher perspective on things to make them understand that what their path will only bring bad name to them thats the end of their road.
2007-05-15 21:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by Goldman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey the saying is once a cheater always a cheater! and if you are in a relationship with someone what is the point in being with them if you are just going to cheat? i know that myself?! so guys out there and girls! if you gonna cheat on your bf/gf maybe you aint ready for a relationship and just want some fun!
2007-05-15 22:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think cheaters can stop cheating if they find the right person. I did. I cheated on everyone I was with until I married my second husband. We've been together ten years and haven't cheated yet.
2007-05-15 22:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some do stop, but most just get better at hiding it.Most wives don't want to no this because if they did that would mean they would have to do something about it.What some women will do just to stay married.
2007-05-15 21:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I guess so. Some people might cheat once and feel really badly about it and see it as a mistake and never do it again.
2007-05-15 21:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes we can stop cheating. But it usually takes our conscience a while to catch up to our p e n i s. Hey ladies u r just as bad now days.
2007-05-15 21:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by John G 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I strongly believe in that saying.
"ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER"
2007-05-15 21:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Situaations like that happens every day.
2007-05-15 21:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by richelle114 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋