i broke up wid my x bf a few days back cuz he cheated on me with his x gf.
He accused me of cheatin on him n treated me real bad...
wht do i do 2 get over all this? i think i still miss him...how can i 4get him??
2007-05-15 19:50:00 · 12 answers · asked by ♥¢0űR†ÑeY♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You get over him by rebuilding yourself esteem. Listen to a lot of uplifting music and tell yourself you deserve better (cause you really do), then you begin doing positive things for yourself and excel in your life. he was a jerk and one day he might miss you, then again he might not, but he will think of all the people he hurt and the man in the mirror is someone he will face w/o a smile. Hurting people is nothing to be proud of, and soon you'll smile again and that beautiful, intelligent, starlett in the mirror---only this time you'll have a lesson learned, you'll be stronger.
2007-05-15 19:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep busy!! You have to many sure that you have planes all the time and make sure that you are just not laying around doing nothing. I am not too sure how old you are but I would recommend going to the gym or going shopping. If you have a job that is good but maybe just for now get another one and that is good to keep you busy and meet new people. You will be fine soon hun.
2007-05-16 02:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by NewlyMarried&LovingIt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Get involved with other things in your life. You will never be able to trust him again after this experience so move along. Of course you miss him since he was part of your life. Now make someone else the most important person in your life-you for starters. The best revenge is living well. Treat yourself good- LOL.
2007-05-16 02:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by june.johnston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy getting over someone. Try doing something different and fun that you are eager to do... Don't drown yourself too much in work and hard things that you have to do.. it'll just stress you out more you know... It's really up to you how to forget someone.. Maybe you should spend time with your closest friend and just let it all out on her....... throw away all that brings memories back into your head... A guy like that is NOT WORTH CARING FOR ANYMORE. good luck!
2007-05-16 02:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Central Park 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe once a cheater always a cheater. He probably just accused you because he was guilty. You think? Think about your future. If you love yourself realize that you can always find someone better, it's his loss. There's too many other fish in the sea. I wouldn't waste my time listening to why he did it. There's no excuse. If he'd loved you enough he wouldn't have done it. It just takes time. Trust me! Keep yourself busy! I clean and listen to rap or high enery music when I'm depressed.
2007-05-16 03:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by sheila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were in love with him only time will help you get over him. I suggest you occupy your free time hanging out with friends and family. Do activities that will keep you mind off of him. Go out and have fun. It's easier to get over someone when you have a new someone get my drift?
2007-05-16 02:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to completely ignore him. Avoid him at all costs, and keep yourself busy. If he tries to call you, just ignore him. If he really hurt you, and you know you don't want anything to do with him anymore, the only way to get over him is to not be around him.
2007-05-16 02:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rigfht now you are in the mental state of missing your ex...
all you need is to find the place in your mind that says "im moving on"
once you have that place it will be easier
think about all the bad things hes done to you
and imagine that girl he cheated on you with having an orgasm
2007-05-16 02:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by tdbndtb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you and you miss him? He screwed somoene else, touched her and held her and tasted her and you miss him......
You feeling sorry for yourself and wondering if it was your fault...NOOOOOOO
We all have this problem when it doesn't work. We all have our sad stories and wonder.
MOVE ON and go have fun.
If you chase your the sucker
You'll regret it..
2007-05-16 02:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by intelligentathleticpassionate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him!!!!
if he cheated on you, it means he doesnot have feelings for you...
it will be hard to go over it... so try not to think about him at all. and throw away anything he gave you...
go out and have fun with your friends.
2007-05-16 02:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by ashweeni_doo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋