My bf of almost 2 yrs are taking a break to change some things and decided to wait till after summer to get back together cuz we wouldn't see each other at all over summer. The main issue was that I would flip out if we couldn't hang out one night.What would be our 2 yr anniversary is on Fri. and the day we lost our virginity to each other is on sat. Im upset that we won't be spending those days together. What are ways I can deal with it. We still talk everyday and hang out at school. It is just very hard cuz we are also best friends and have a special bond.
P.S. He just turned 17 and I am almost 17.
We won't see each other because he is on a traveling team for baseball. He also still tells me that im cute and hot and he still loves me a lot. I am not at all worried about him finding another girl cuz he tells me often how he can't wait for me to change the getting mad issue. He also wanted to make sure i wasn't just changing for him cuz no one should have to change for anyone. I
2007-05-15 16:22:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
your young and this is the time to test the waters, go boy scoping have fun and if you still feel the same about him and he still feels the same way about you after your short break then things will be okay.
2007-05-15 16:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by oooooh!!! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ah, Love... Isn't it grand. You may not want to read any further becuase I may say something that you will not like. But alas I must say something. There is a lot of emotions here when you are young and sometimes you fail to see the obvious. Love is blind as they say. I believe strongly at your age you should be learning to be independent rather than dependant on another. Let me explain please. When you have been around as long as some of us old folk.. you see a lot of relationships come and go. Some of those relationships contain young boy and young girl who are so in love that they want to talk about their big dreams and plans and fail to listen to others. But soon the relationship is in trouble and the boy go off with another girl leaving the young lady behind. I know what you are thinking.. "this won't happen to us".. But, in this world it does happen. There are two benefits that come from building up your independence, First you are more attractive when you are confident in yourself. When people are confident in themselfs it shows and makes them more fun to be around. The second reason just makes sense. If you build your own way then you are more likely to succeed if anything does go wrong. Yes I know that some say that they married young and lived long happy lifes together. For some that is true, but life does not always work that way. Just look at the devorce rate in this country. I watched American Idol the other day and saw a 17 year old going after her dreams. That is impressive. She will be ready for her life with or without a boyfriend. Which makes her very respectable. Find what you want to do with your life now that you are young and worry about the relationship things later. So I said it!! I just had to throw in my two cents.
2007-05-15 16:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sergeant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are too young to be hung up on one kid. I know you think the world of him right now, but in a few years, you'll look back and wonder why you even asked this question. My daughter is almost 17 and believe me, she knows there are many boys out there that are interesting. You have to be open minded and not get hooked on this one kid. In your life there will be many boys that are interested in you and one day when you are much older, you'll find the right one for you, but right now you should concentrate on meeting all types of people and enjoying your youth. Best of Luck!
2007-05-15 17:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by sweetnsassy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to start this with telling you that you are too young. But what I will tell you, is that you need to enjoy life. We are only here Once and no do overs! So, yes it's hard because he was the guy that took your virginity but take it day by day..Cry if you have to but make sure to surround youself with your family and friends and always keep yourself busy and have fun because God knows what he'll be doing. GOOD LUCK
2007-05-15 16:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he decide to wait til after summer to get back together ? or did you? If it was him, then I say he's not into you. You need to find out if he's just playing the field or if he is really sincere about you, but from what i read here, he might be moving on & heading for greener pastures. Good luck!
2007-05-15 16:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on girl..at 17 you have just begun to live and learn the ups and downs of love..its hard to let go of your first, but you want someone to love you and b with you most of the time don't you? when a guy wants to change its because he wants something diff. and when he tells you you look hot,fine etc..its sex on the brain..don't b used by any man u r better than that. you will have many many many more relationships..so keep yer head up..and remember you come first(-:
2007-05-15 16:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by vinnie007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋