Is this woman over-reacting?!?

Question

My parents are nearly 40, but their friends are married couples in their 20's. I'm 16, so me and my parents friends get along really well too. I stay late at their parties after my parents have gone home ( I do not drink) we joke and have fun. I give excellent massages and the husbands are firefighters so they pay me $20 to give them a massage cause they are sore. The wives didn't seem to mind, it helped their husbands and they were always sitting 5 feet away. I had already been texting them jokes, funny kindof dirty ones that even my parents knew about. well one of the wives took it the wrong way I guess and called my mom p i s s ed off and wanted to kick my *** and wanted to kick hers. She thinks that I'm trying to steal her 27 year old husband and that we are trying having an affair. I don't send these texts to just him tho, I send them to the other guys and other friends and the other wives aren't mad at all about them. Is this woman overreacting? What should I do about it?

This woman is already a very controlling b i t c h y person, and everyone she hangs with knows it. If she isn't winning a game the whole night is shot to h e l l. She thinks she has to be in charge at all times and she is very dominering and mean. if things don't go the way she wants it to at a party she throws a fit and ruins everyones night, even if it isn't her throwing the party. She seems like she still thinks she is in high school or something, with all this drama she is trying to play up.

the other wives ask me to give their husbands the massage and the wives give me the $20 to do it. even the wife that is freaking out.

Answer 1

tlook use common sense not to be rude why have people question your integrity u can be a h** with out having sex thats her man not yours apologize and leave them alone your not that naive I'm not trying to put u down ok grow up i see girls every day with low self esteem Ive been their do the right thing what goes around comes around.dont b so inmature u cant exspect people to take u seriously when u act like a child like that
ps im not trying to hurt u but grow up

Answer 2

I would think giving them massages, without being a qualified technician, would have raised the flag for the wife. But I think the dirty emails may be too much for her cuz it's emotional and it's a form of communication for her. Just keep everything at a distant and cool it with the sexual talk. It's the boundary she has and she feels you crossed it. Easy, just stay away from her and her husband and watch the boundaries of the other ppl. Everyone has one and each is different. Good luck!
Wait, just read you're 16. I think that raises a lot of flags. Cool it with the sexual talk. You're so young! And next time they pay you to do anything, say,"no, not for sale!"

Answer 3

A few problems with this. First, you should not be hanging out and partying with these people. It might seem like a small age difference but its a huge maturity difference. Giving masssages are more no no's. Its inappropriate for them to receive them from an underage girl even if they are "harmless". They are married men and your a teen. Texting them is also wrong for the same reasons. Why are all of these things wrong? Because of what is happening with this woman being mad. Stop messaging these people and hanging out with them or your asking for more trouble.

Answer 4

it is very ODD that you would be giving massages to men who are friends of your parents.

and it's even stranger that they are paying you $20.

i think that, what you should do is hang out with people your own age. you're not equipped to be involved in adult situations.

your parents apparently aren't "all there".

take care of YOU...

Answer 5

She's insecure, that's all.