How come everyone just feels sorry for the girlfriend?
Shouldn't they care about the girl he cheated with? She was hurt too you know. If she truly and honestly didn't even know he had a girlfriend, wouldn't technically he would be cheating on both of them even if it was just a date?
2007-05-15 15:49:45 · 21 answers · asked by Liz♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well yes it is all his fault. He completly lied to me about having a girldfriend.
2007-05-15 16:04:31 · update #1
your absolutely right....the problem is most people assume that the other woman knows the guy has a girlfriend. But your right alot of the time the other woman doesn't know he's taken. I feel sorry for anyone who gets hurt by cheaters.
2007-05-15 15:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been in the same situation. And the truth is that actually I blame the guy because he knew what he was doing when he did it. Now if the girl did know if he had a girlfriend then thats a no no on her part. And a lot of people seem to think thats how it really was. And no I don't see it as him cheating on you because she was already in the picture before you got there. I would say that he played you.
2007-05-15 22:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically you are right. Except that people nowadays are just more concerned with the cheated one (by the BF).
If you are the third party, it would be good for everyone to apologize and befriend the 1st gf. That way, word will spread out that the 3rd party hasnt done anything wrong except to love another person who lied to her.
2007-05-15 22:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the other woman truly did not know he was with someone else then yes, they were both cheated on and I would feel sad for both of them. Personal experience...I found out about a woman my ex was with the night before he was with me and called her up...she had no idea about me as I suspected. He was such a smooth liar! We got together where he was playing in a band at a bar that night and sat in the front row watching his a** sweat! That was all it took and he was history for both of us!
2007-05-15 22:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by grams2faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that situation, thats why i make sure i know if the guy is seeing anyone... i been played like that before and it really sucks
not only do you feel bad that you disrespected the g/f... you feel bad b/c you were nothing but a piece of a$$ to him... thats why i dont sleep around
I feel bad for both women, they dont deserve that.. that man is nothing but a pig.. but what i dont get, is why the G/F always blames the girl and forgives the b/f
it takes two to tango imo
2007-05-15 22:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok Girl A is the girl that STUD A is going out with but then STUD A cheats on Girl A with Girl B, Girl A doesn't know about Girl B and visa versa, Finaly Girl A finds out that STUD A was cheating on her with Girl B, naturaly Girl A would be mad at STUD A for cheating on her but she would also be mad at Girl B even though Girl B didn't know that STUD A was double teaming them both, and also naturaly Girl B would be furious with STUD A for going out with her sine he had a girlfriend already and didn't tell her, instead of Girl A and Girl B being mad at eachother they should both gang up on the guy STUPID STUD A LOL.....even though this is a odd coinsidince this does happen sometimes and instead of people being mad at the Girl B they should feal sorry for her because she was the one who fell for STUD A's tricks of decievness. they should also feal sorry for Girl A because STUD A cheated on her. why do guys have to cheat? that's so stupid and inmature
2007-05-15 23:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by cash money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean? well of course most people care about the feelings of the girlfriend because most often than not, the women are more emotional, they easily get hurt...while men are more secretive about their feelings, in your case, i presume you know that he has a girlfriend or if not you might just made some investigations about the man.
people will make a bad impression on you because you are the one that made an event for them to argue, its normal that they put the blame on you, maybe its better if you apologize to the girl, if you think you made a mistake, and try to expalin things to her, and try not to communicate with the man anymore
2007-05-15 22:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by khatz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right! But most people just assume the other girl already knew that he had a girlfriend and that is why they hate on her too. If she DID know then it is her fault too but if she honestly had no clue, she should get sympathy too.
2007-05-15 22:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,because he was cheating and lying to them both.You should feel sorry for both of them for being clueless and being taken advantage of .I've been in that situation before about 10 years ago.He was with both of us,and she called one day when I was at his house.I didn't know and neither did she.At first we were mad at each other,and she actually wanted to fight over him,with winner taking all.I told her after calming down myself,that we were both mad at the wrong person.We confronted him,and we both quit seeing him.
2007-05-15 23:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Babylove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people assume the girl he cheated with knew he was taken. So there's no sympathy.
If she honestly didn't know...then I'd feel awful for her too.
2007-05-15 22:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Cheryl S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋