i love to flirt even if i dont like the guy is that bad?

Question

i am one of the BIGGEST flirts and i am always flirting. its the best part of school to me! i always hug a guy, touch his hands or shoulders, smile, hold their hands, mess with their hair, andwear their jackters. some girls dont like me b/c i flirt with their bfs or the guys they like. but i dont even try to do it! its not like im a bitchy oerson. i think its actually automatic. whenever i see a member of the opposite sex, my charm and flirtaciousness just turns on and i dont even notice. i am NOT a sllut and i dont dress like one either. in fact, this guy turned me down because i was too much of a goody goody! so im not a slut, but i am a HUGEEE flirt. i am constantly flirting. is that bad, wrong, or unfair to the guys, if i always touch them, giggle, and flirt?

Answer 1

You seem to have a wonderful personality and flirting is your way of making others feel good. It's not that there is anything wrong with flirting, but you should have some where-with-all to know WHEN AND WHO to flirt with. If you know the guy has a girl - why cause dissention between them with your 'honest' flirting. You know how girls are - it's a sure way to create some tension and drama. You need to pick and choose - a woman who is confident within herself and enjoys a certain amount of flirting knows how far to go with it - if you are flirting with other girls boyfriends in the way you have described - you're going to have a lot of enemies. Also, when you think about it - boys - don't understand flirting...they think it's a sign that YOU REALLY LIKE THEM and you WANT THEM and they mis read the message, and honestly, you could get hurt, if you ran into someone who mistook your honest and sincere 'flirting' for something more. Please be careful.

Answer 2

It's not bad... it's who you are. Just like with anyone, though, sometimes you have to keep yourself in check for your own sake. You don't want to push people away for something like flirting. Just be yourself but keep other peoples feelings in mind. If someone gets offended or is getting the wrong impression..... apologize and don't do it around that person anymore. Otherwise, you may end up making a lot of enemies. That's just the way it is, sadly. On the other hand... if you don't care what other people think... then who cares! Do what makes you happy!

Answer 3

It is bad because you are leading these poor guys on. When a girl flirts with you as much as you describe, a guy gets the idea that she has the hots for him. When he finds out she didn't he usually feels hurt by it and thinks she's a b-word even if she doesn't think she is one. You can think you are a goody goody all you want but the guys you push off still won't think so.

Answer 4

One day you are going to get the wrong man mad
and you will pay for it. Do you not realize that today
you need to be careful as people are not what
they once were. Society has made them more
aggresive, and with you flirting as much as you say
you do , one day you will come across that man
that will take what you perseive to dish out. If you
are a good sexy looking lady you do not need to
flirt as you will be noticed, but to me flirting as
much as you say you do turns a man off as he
knows you do it to all men and that makes you
look like a slut even though you may not be.
So be careful who you flirt for.

Answer 5

I don' think it is bad to flirt at all. I think it is natural for allot of women. Just be careful who you flirt with cause you might really piss off the wrong girlfriend. Also, when you are older you may have to be careful who you flirt with because when you are out drinking and give a guy an inch he sees it as a mile.

Answer 6

Well people will either become really attracted to your personality, or they'll think you're a slut. I'm not saying that it's bad, but it probably hurts the dudes feelings and if you're pretty they probably get into fights over you. Flirt all you want, just be careful. if people don't like it they are jealous, but as long as you don't give anyone reason, no one important will honestly believe you are a slut or bad person or what have you.

Answer 7

You are who you are and no one here is going to change that
You will continue to flirt because its like a drug to you
Can you change .. probably not (you dont want to)
Are you hurting people.. only the ones who have boyfriends
Will some guy take you seriously.. probably not because they can see what you are doing (do you think they want that type of girl in there life.... nope)

And yeah boys will come and go in your relationships, then come and go come and go

You keep having fun .. sham you wont be taken seriously

Answer 8

it is wrong and unfair, which you more than likely know or you wouldn't have said that. do what you will, but one day, that will end up getting you in HUGE trouble. you'll flirt with the wrong girl's boyfriend, or lead on the wrong guy.... and it'll be no good

besides, who wants a girlfriend who hangs around all those guys anyway? who would trust someone like that?

Answer 9

no there is nothing wrong with flirting though you may want to stay clear of the taken guys, dont want to get into a fight with another girl for nothing, and sometimes you mite be leading a guy the wrong way but as long as you keep you'r boundaries flirting is perfectly fine, its sometimes even a good icebreaker with the shyer people so no need to worry about it

Answer 10

its not bad my frnd but coming to such a large number of boys all of them wudnot take it in a easy way
so try to jst hangout with only a sinbgle boy....
it s my advice
wat u do is u better quit from the place when a boy appears in front of u
is it ok
in this way u can atleast reduce ur flirting.......
and try to keep control on ur feelings somethng like hugging, holding their hands, smiling, playing with their hair.....
ok my frnd
pls feel free to contact me in case of any other extra information....
i will definitely clear ur doubts
is it ok my frnd????
i wish u all the very best
bye