my brother had this friend... lets call him paul! ok. well.. me and paul hooked up around august. and see im really young. like.. a sophmore in highschool young. and he is 23. so we couldnt like tell anyone what happened. and then about two months later he stopped talking to me. and i found out he was dating my sister! and then on christmas eve i found out she was pregnant! and so... i sucked it up. and i made myself not hate him. but i just cant help but want to hook up with him and touch him when i am in their house and he is home! please tell me this isnt so much my faulT and it isnt as bad as i think it is!!!
2007-05-15 14:54:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sucks but you can not help the way you feel. Its impossible to just change your feelings but you do need to resist the urge to be with him. You do not want to cause those kinds of problems for your sister or her baby. Plus he should not be touching you anyways hes a little old for you (no offense)
2007-05-15 14:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by n&z-mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not as bad as you think, though... I think you should have told your sister that you and him made out when you first found out they were dating...
Now you really dont have much of an option... Stay far away from him. Since your sister is expecting - you dont want to cause her unnecessary guilt or sadness... Find someone else who isn't such a jerk that he'd get with you, then your sister... Screw him.. Men make me sick sometimes... You're better off without him. Just know, in your heart, what kind of guy he is that he would mess with family... Hopefully, he doesnt hurt your sister...
Good luck, honey.
2007-05-15 15:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paul is a dog for dating sisters and he's a dog without a condom. It could be you fixing to have this loser's baby. Find you another man!!! And use birth control.
2007-05-15 14:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may be normal for you to be attracted to him because of your age, and maybe he is attractive and seems to know how to treat a woman, but for him to stop seeing you without even a word (I think he stopped talking to you because he was ashamed of himself) and hook up with your sister, now he is the father of her child. It's a shame this happened to your sister, but just BE THANKFUL it wasn't you! Stop and think what good could possibly come of this. Believe me, it's just your hormones causing you to want him, he couldn't possibly be good for you especially if he would now cheat on your pregnant sister with you. There are plenty of men/boys closer to your own age who you could also have feelings for, please wash your hands of him and start fresh!
2007-05-15 15:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by Janni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty messed up situation. Stay away from him and find someone else. It is not worth hurting your sister. Family is for a lifetime while boyfriends come and go.
2007-05-15 14:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Godb4me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's really bad I don't think it's right to be in love with the person whose had relationship with your sibling.
2007-05-15 14:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep your h ands off of him around your sister
2007-05-15 14:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see a Maury episode in your future
2007-05-15 14:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Thyk L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is sooooo nasty. sorry! You need to get your life together.
2007-05-15 14:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by tbrownhaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you DONT do it again, its ok
2007-05-15 14:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋