arite ive been goin crazy over this girl and have been askin questions like crazy. well i still havent talked to her and i still cant get her off my damn mind...
y cant i jus move on? is it normal to think bout 1 girl for about a year?
2007-05-15 14:04:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure
2007-05-15 14:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by __ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just recently found out that love shares symptoms with OCD. Not to say that love causes crazyness but yeah some food for thought.
Im going to crank out the same advice I tell every other shy guy/girl on here, use the lost art of COMMUNICATION. Start a darn conversation with the girl, she damm well cant pick up your feelings if you dont talk to her.
Starting convos are easier then you think, you just need the courage to do it. Start by working out something you both have in commmon, even if its just that your in the same room. Then from there flow to other things, If you have confidence you can do it, and chicks dig confident guys.
Better to love den lost to never loved at all, apparently so give it a shot
2007-05-15 21:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal, maybe instead of moving on you should try and talk to her instead! Dont waste any more time than you already have. If she doesnt feel the same way atleast you know and can move on. But she could be totally crazy for you too, waiting on you to make your move. So dont keep her waitin!
2007-05-15 21:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Zyalater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is SOOO normal I have the same problem with this guy that always breaks up with me and I know that the boyfriend I have now is a lot better but I can not get him off my mind but you really don't care so hope this helps!
2007-05-15 21:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably never forget her, but there will be others that will capture you mind. Once you start to look for someone else the sooner she will start to fade and the less time she will take up in your mind. Love hurts, but its wonderful at the same time...
2007-05-15 21:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by the.moldyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know b/c i'm a girl, but i feel the same about this boy. when i saw him the 1st day of skool, i liked him, and to this day, i still do. but he is a senior, and i am a freshman, so i don't think anythink can happen b/c this is his last week @ skool and i'll probably never c him again
2007-05-15 21:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by Gabby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is normal. What you do not want is for it to run into years. Smokey lived next door to Alice for 24 years! Just do it!
2007-05-15 21:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by omopido 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably it means ur in love and u think that she's the only one for u. but it's ur life, so Ithink u should move on. Their are plenty of woman out their!Good Luck!!
2007-05-15 21:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Maria Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you care very deeply about this girl. You should talk to her and get a friedship happening and then see where it goes from there.
2007-05-15 21:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by Trixi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obsessing. You need to talk to a therapist and have them help you sort out your problems. I would guess that you have attachment and/or abandonment issues.
2007-05-15 21:08:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mark and Allie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you better talk to her and find out one way or the other. If you don't it will haunt you for a long time.
2007-05-15 21:08:08 · answer #11 · answered by Michael C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋