2007-05-15 14:00:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You didn't mention how old you are. At some points in your life 21 years is a big deal, at other points not so big of a deal.
2007-05-15 14:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by Michael C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That age distinction is amazingly significant. With an age distinction of 6 years, pretty seeing as she's an person and you're nonetheless underage, it isn't any longer ok. it is not strange, yet having a sexual courting together with her could be incorrect. How did you meet a 21 year previous woman besides? attempt assembly women your guy or woman age - 15 or sixteen.
2016-12-11 10:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by mcarthur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong answer to this question. It all depends on the individuals involved. If the two of you are happy and your family is okay with it then by all means have at it.
Personally I think anyone who dates someone younger than their children is icky. Fifteen years is a good limit. Not too many people having kids at that age.
2007-05-15 14:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by L Coco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say first off, how old are you? Next, think about what points in life you are at. While age is just a number, alot can happen in 21 years, and that is something to think about. Do you already have kids? Do you want any? How about your sweetie? Like I said, age doesn't matter, but those things do.
2007-05-15 14:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by abadgirlwithgoodintentions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's 31, then we have a problem.
If he's 65, then its not such a big deal.
Age is more than a number. It's life experiences,attitude, point of reference, education .. all sorts of things that help us define ourselves.
Ignoring the age difference can be detrimental to the relationship, but the age difference itself doesn't necessarily mean it can't work. It has to be factored into the plans you make.
For instance, when you go on a date .. does he pick you up at home? or at home room?
2007-05-15 14:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is only a factor if you can't handle the facts!!! The facts are when you are 40 he will be 61. That means you will be a young lady and he will be an old man. If things like health and sex life don't outweigh your love then it shouldn't be a factor!!!
2007-05-15 14:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think age is a factor at all as long as the two of you are compatible and really like each other there should be no problem
My sister and her husband are 18 years apart and they a doing just fine
2007-05-15 14:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age. If you are of legal age, 18 or older, then the hell what people say, if you under 18, then it wrong, case closed. The older you are, like in your 20's the better the relationship because you both are adults, not a adult/child relationship.
2007-05-15 14:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by cheery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on you, but I do think its a factor. I dated a MAN who was 20 years older than me and he started going out with my friends but after 2 months he was acting like and old man, I would never do that again... I dont like to be trated like a baby and he didnt listen to my opinions cause he had more experience...
2007-05-15 14:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by Marquel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
21 years older when you are 20 or 40?
2007-05-15 14:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋