Ok, theres this guy I really, really like. And i asked to be friends with him on MySpace, and he said yes. The next day i was #10 on his friends list, above his x-girlfriend. He commented me every time he was on and told me to call him and left his number, but told me to delete the message cuz he didn't want n e one else calling him. So i called him and we were having what i thought was a pretty good conversation when- MY PHONE DISCONNECTED. i tried to call him back, but it didn't go through. Then he tried to call me twice, but it didn't work. So I commented him, saying that I DID NOT hang up on him! and so today i look at his page and i am off his top friends list completely and he had deleted my comment about calling him. He had flirted so much, i really thought he might like me. What did i do wrong?
2007-05-15 14:00:06 · 17 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing. He's a jerk.
2007-05-15 14:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably didnt do anything wrong. He may have took your message off about calling him because he didnt want anyone else to ask for his phone number. He might like you or he might have been playing you. Unfortunatly I had someone that I thought was a nice guy that I talked to alot then all of a sudden I recieve an email from his girl friend asking who I was. You can never be to careful on here unfortunatly not everyone is honest.
2007-05-15 14:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by SARAH J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did nothing wrong! You can't help that he didn't believe you about the phone disconnecting you.. He evidently didn't think enough of you to believe you when you told him the truth and that means you are better off without him.. People who can't accept an apology and understand that these things sometimes happen probably have hung up on someone in their lifetime and then tried to say that it was an accident... so don't worry about it, if he is this immature you don't need him..
Good luck and God bless....
2007-05-15 14:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by brunette_godiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect HE hung up on YOU and he's pretending he thinks you hung up on him and he's oh soooo offended-don't fall for it-this is an old old trick. The truth is I've used it before as an excuse to stop communications with a guy. The trick is to hang up when you yourself are talking because that way the other person would never suspect you would hang up in the middle of a word /hang up on yourself talking. LOLOL
Please don't waste a SECOND more of time wondering about this geek-chances are he has a girlfriend or a wife who saw his message or your messages to him and it caused him problems.
2007-05-15 14:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by MAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not do anything wrong. It sounds like a misunderstanding to me. Was there anything said that would have given you good reason to hang up? If so then maybe he thinks you got upset and hung up. Another possibility is that he is playing games with you now. It is just something that some guys do. Good luck!
2007-05-15 14:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worring yourself over nothing, b/c if he was into you, and you wrote him telling him that the call was accidently disconnected, then he would understand and it wouldn't be such a big deal. Maybe he wasn't that into after you all talked on the phone, so he is using that as an excuse not to have to talk w/ you again......so anyways suck it up and count it as his loss.....
2007-05-15 14:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Curious1one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are too young to be stressing over this
if someone does not like u another person will
and that the reality of the life we live in
so make new friends and move on
if u get the chance to talk to him do it
but dont stress over the fact that he shd add u to lis list
and concerntrate on getting better in school that is an attrative feature for u too
2007-05-15 14:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by maku d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is seeing somebody and wants to keep the romance with you on the down low.
By posting something like that as a comment, youre making it too public. Thats what you did wrong.
2007-05-15 14:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by NICOCANADA223233 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's him.... Well if you explained and he still did that...It shows how much he was really concerned about you.. I think you would be better off finding Someone that would reciprocate the feelings back honestly and none of the head games..With all the people on my space and Internet..How many do u actually think are genuine and sincere..???
2007-05-15 14:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by mitchellman382003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your question the only thing i can think of is that he misinterprited your hangup as something on purpose and you are covering for it. It is also possible that there are things out of your control (ie his girlfriend) that is influincing him.
Just wait it out, If things was going as good as you claimed then he should get back in contact with you.
2007-05-15 14:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he thinks that you did hang up on him, because you wrote that. guys always get the opposite message from stuff like that.
try talking to him in person and take it slow
explain to him that your phone got disconnected (dropped call or something)
2007-05-15 14:06:39 · answer #11 · answered by dancinkitty0510 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋