Long story short, I have a large frame (not fat, but tall, have a large ribcage, small amt of breast tissue). I'm a *small* B but want to be a large, natural size (*medium* C).
Problem: I'm shy and come from a conservative family. They're OK with me getting them, but I was embarassed just asking! I'm 21 and I know most girls get them even BEFORE college starts, some in HIGH SCHOOL.
I think it's about time I got them to feel more feminine, fill in dresses better, etc.
Still, I've seen the kind of neg. attention girls get when they get theirs done...Let me emphasize the fact that I'm shy (and I'm a virgin)...this isn't the image I want to give guys and people in general.
Guys, what do you think of girls who have gotten a *natural* size done? Girls, any similar experiences? Pros/Cons of implants (reactions from ppl, health, etc)?
ANY INFO WOULD HELP A LOT. THANKS SO MUCH!! :)
2007-05-15 13:33:31 · 17 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well im tall and my frame is too big for my breast size. so im gettin them done this summer. the doctor only let me choose a pair from two or three he had allready choosen out. why? because he claims to be conservative and i like the fact that he only does it natural. the only negative attention girls get from fake boobs is when they show them off. because if they're natural looking then nothing out of the norm is spotted right away. and im the low key type. not popular, im just a plain average girl. im doing it for me and only me. my boyfriend's not too crazy about the idea nor is my family. and thats how i know im doing it all for me. make sure its what you want. when i met my doctor for the consultation i learned so much more than i expected. take time to make the decision. good luck. 0h yeah, im 19, imma small B and im going to a fairly large C
2007-05-15 13:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by lauriecherie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you feel deep inside your heart that you would like to get them enlarged then go for it. As for what image you will be putting out there, well for starters if you got them so big that they looked fake then yeah you will get a slutty image attached to you. But I think that since you are shy and you feel awkward about your physical appearance, then afterwards you will have a better opinion about yourself thus raising your self esteem. I think its all about how you carry yourself after the process is completed.
As for your age, eh don't worry about it. Actually most women I know have them done in their late 20s to late 30s.
You do what you feel is best for you. But shop around first for a qualified doctor to perform the surgery.
Good Luck and be ready to meet the new you =)
2007-05-15 13:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Spyder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think ppl will be okay with you getting your breasts inlarged as long you stay a normal size. it will make you look better and feel better about yourself. plus you'll probably get compliments on how great you look suddenly. if it it's not a huge differnece, ppl won't critasize you. the people who have huge, bulging, fake breats are the ones who get scorned at. before you do anything tho, you have to realize the consequences of getting your breasts inlarged, it WILL hurt for a little while afterward. don't let fear of being critasized stop you from doinf what you really want, it's YOUR body, not all those other peoples'.
2007-05-15 13:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by skidthekitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe you shouldn't have to change your physical appearence at all. A size B is not bad at all. The right guy will not be so picky about breast size, or weight for that matter. He will be more interested in your mind, your personality. I don't think it will help you.... and may even get you involved in the wrong kind of people.
2007-05-15 13:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by seanied2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's your body, you have to life with it everyday, so it's not really up to other people to judge you.
Personally, I don't think any less of girls who have implants, I just find it a bit sad(not the person, but the situation), for the reason that someone is pretty for who they are, and you love someone for who they are, not because they have size b or c.
2007-05-15 13:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by TheBullet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think, when done right they look nice on some girls. It's the girls that pick the obvious ones that look hilarious, but then again w/o those chicks we wouldn't laugh as much I suppose!
Please know that a set of .t.its won't make you feel feminine, that's something that comes from inside, so don't expect miracles from a pair of fake boobs.
2007-05-15 13:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey I'm in 9Th grade and I have had a girlfriend for 2 years and i Think the kid that said i love you just wanted the skittles so he was using you and the other one that you arm wrestled he may love you iv never really ever said that to a girl before i arm wrestled her but he might be trying to use you to but probably not I'm clueless when it comes to The arm one but hey they both might love you but 8th grade love is not true love keep that in mind.
2016-05-19 14:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by joi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sac from the implant can burst and you will need surgery!
be happy with who you are!
you are a very pretty girl, and what you chose to do in the end i have faith that it will be the right choice!
good luck and Godbless!
2007-05-15 13:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmaybe you should wait a little longer just to see if anything happens then in a few months or a year or so if nothing happens have something done and until anything happens just be yourself and people will see past that
2007-05-15 13:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i havent had mine done but i think u should do what u really want to do if u think it looks gud the way it is then keep it but if u want to so a lil more then do what ever makes u happy do it not what other people think
2007-05-15 13:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by ncmamieof3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋