I think im being blamed for my girlfriends pregnancy?

Question

I think im being blamed for my girlfriends pregnancy?
i met a girl on the 23rd of march/2007.we started having sex after the 6th of april/2007 and she has recently been showing a belly a little bit(noticeable) and leaking a bit nipples,am i being set up?how far along can she actually be?what should i do?

Answer 1

if she is showing and leaking fluid from her breast (which isnt usually until 6 months)... (showing) she has to be AT LEAST 4 months...dude it isnt yours...walk while you still can!!! it isnt worth it.

Answer 2

It's possible she's pregnant, and it's possible it's yours - why do you assume you're being set up? Do you have any reason to believe she was having unprotected sex before she met you, or do you just not want to face the facts that the unprotected sex YOU had may now have serious consequences?

You should ask that she take a pregnancy test, and if it's positive, consult with her doctor about a paternity test to confirm if the child is yours. Whether or not she keeps the child is up to her - but if she does raise this child, it is your responsibility to help support him/her financially.
You should also both get tested for STDs.

If you've lucked out and she isn't pregnant, then you need to work on serious trust issues, and start using protection so you don't have this sort of scare again.

Answer 3

It depends on how serious you two are. You should talk to her. Has she done a preg. test? If not, have her do one. You never know, maybe it's just a little extra weight. If you really care for her, take her to a doctor. Have her checked out. You guys can make it through this.
However, if you're not really too serious, still do all those things I just said. She'll know you won't desert her, and she'll feel more comforable about her pregnancy. Stay by her side when you can. After all, this is your responsibility too. If you two aren't a serious couple, just stay with her until the baby is carried. Then, if you both want to, go your seperate ways.

Answer 4

Okay Skinny as much as this is going to hurt you, you need to ask yourself a few basic questions. When you two started having sex, was there any kind of protection involved? If the answer is no, then you might want to think about getting ready to be a father. In fact this is half your fault and you might want to think about the seriousness of your actions. You are now looking at one month ago you two started having sex. Her genetic makeup might be different than those you know. There are also tests that can pijpoint the damn near exact date she got pregnant. In fact you can still get a guesstimate.
Now onto more practical ideals. If she is and it isn't yours, the choice of course is up to you how to deal with it. Just remember that she might have been sacred when the idea of sex with you came up nad decided her baby needed a man who was going to step up and not run like a little coward. If it is yours, step up and be the man that you need to be. It isn't the baby's fault it was created. It was just created.

Answer 5

Any woman or guy who has intercourse interior 2 weeks are no longer in love, they are in basic terms attractive. you will have worn a condom. no less than, you will get 8 months of difficulty. on the main, congratulations Dad, you get to pay toddler help for the subsequent 18 years. all of it boils right down to an uncomplicated paternity attempt after the youngster is born. till then, you will in basic terms could desire to sweat it out. so a techniques as somebody attempting to blame you or set you up, you will have seen that in the past you unzipped. meanwhile: give up HAVING intercourse!

Answer 6

well u ddint want to wear a rain caot lol so it just may be yours u never know she could be preg with twins wich she would show ore sonner but if at all worried why not go to the doc with her and see wt they have to say about her due date then u will know for sure and next time wear a rain coat and u wont have these ?s lol

Answer 7

well, if ever since the first time you were together, you didnt take precautions, that means she could be about 2 months now..don't forget that women have different levels of hormones, and it can start showing that early in pregnancy. i think it's posible that the baby's yours, take her to the doctor and check the due date

Answer 8

you do know you get a girl pregnant first time round or didnt you know that, i dont think you are being set up, looks like you got this girl pregnant and now you have to suffer the consiquences of your action

next time use a condom

Answer 9

I think you should sit down and talk to her..tell her what you are thinking, ask her to see some paper work or a sonogram or just go to the doctors with her. If all else fails....DNA test.

Answer 10

what? why dont you ask her if she's pregnant??? She would normally show by 3 months, but this depends on the woman. If you dont get a straight answer from her, you will find out when the baby is born.

Answer 11

you set yourself up-and if you try an weizel out of being the dad -it says alot about you too.

Relax
you are in the best position right now-to come to Jesus and get it all right.

John 3 has the key-let Jesus into our heart to help us, asking forgiveness even for one lie-sin and he will come in and be your best friend too.

have a good relax and dont worry it will all come out good -if you sow good seeds you will reap good. David