I not want to get serious with anyone and do not want to have a live in either. I want the finer things in life but am willing to work for them. I make a fair amount of money and only want a boy toy, so I will make sure he is very happy but not wanting a commitment. Also because I buy him things, does that commit some crime?
Ex: Football Tickets or Vacations???
Do you think this is okay until I am ready to get old and married?
2007-05-15 12:22:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
To answer a question a few of your questions.
I am not in love with him and don't plan to be.
He does buy me things like dinner sometimes and etc.. but nothing real major. He is not broke but I rather support him while he makes me happy.
In a couple of years he can go where ever he pleases, because who knows I may need to trade him in as well.
2007-05-15 12:37:09 · update #1
Only if there's food, and stuffed animals involved.
Trade him in?. When my wife turned 40, I told her I was going to trade her in for two 20s. She told me I wasn't wired for 220. (I don't get it).
2007-05-15 13:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by CGIV76 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes and no. Yes it's fine because some people just don't have the time to properly court a relationship, especially when they have a lot going on. A normal relationship takes a lot of time and sometimes you really have to focus on yourself until you are sure you are ready to do what you have to do in terms of a proper relationship. It's unfair for people to look down on you, sometimes you just need a companion once in awhile, it would be unfair to get into a relationship knowing that you won't have any time for them anyway. No because if you really end up liking the dude, but he is about his business and wants nothing to do with that, you will hurt yourself.
2007-05-15 19:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ultimo8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To most people the finer things in life would be a loving caring relationship not just permiscious sex. But whatever floats your boat.
2007-05-15 19:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by lvillejj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On behalf of men everywhere: /YES!/
You might want to consider, though, that a committed relationship can be much more satisfying in the long term. At least, that's been my experience in 17 years of marriage.
2007-05-15 19:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by B.Kevorkian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where were you before I got married? A girl who wants sex without commitment and treats her man with gifts but wants to support herself... That's most guys dream girl.
2007-05-15 19:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by LawDawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like being used as a human disposable sex toy and being seen as a whore go for it. Thats the reputation youll have and thats all anyone will want you for when they see you dont want committment.Youll get old after yrs of fun and heart ache, BUT look on the bright side.With all the money youll have ,you can afford a LOT of cats to keep you company in your golden yrs.
By the way with the boy toy thing, when a better looking broad comes along he will dump you or someone who offers more.ALso he may seek for ways to steal your money no matter what you pay him.Many women doing what your planning have been swindled and murdered sometimes.Nothing wrong with marriage IF you will let go of the "control freak" thing that has you bound. Its fun to do the things you love with someone you enjoy being with.The boy toy may bring you physical pleasure BUT YOU will NEVER respect him as a human being.Is what youre doing wrong?Yes it destroys the family unit and promoted promiscuity among teens and for them to look at one another a disposable sex toys.It brings about unwanted pregnancies shattered lives emotional traumas etc and this is all your contributing to society by the life style you suggest.
2007-05-15 19:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
As long as you both understand the nature of the relationship It's not only okay, It's no one else's business.
2007-05-15 19:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are upfront in the beginning with what you want from him... I don't think that would really be a relationship though, just sex.
2007-05-15 19:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is okay, but some how it makes me sad and you want so little out of life
2007-05-15 19:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by jean 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's your life but i've found those relationships usually don't work out the best and someone usually ends up getting hurt
2007-05-15 19:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by thelogikos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋