When we met we both agreed we were not looking for a relationship, he works the graveyard shift and coaches his son basketball team on weekends so I figured he was a busy & sleepy guy from the start and I was patience with him but, as time passed and we started to really hang out together and HE even more than I, was always saying how he likes me so, so much and how we were MORE than friends. We talked on the phone half the night. It began to get really nice, he even talked about things we were gonna do this summer like go to the beach and even Vegas,and then OUT of the blue he said we needed to slow it down. He came to a complete halt all of a sudden. I was left so confused, it's like I did something AWFUL to him (which I did nothing of the sort) and my feeling were hurt so bad. I even told him and he said let's just slow down and chill out, he had some personal things in his life to work on, but even if that's the case WHY would he just STOP calling me ????
2007-05-15 10:39:34 · 17 answers · asked by Malmal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well its sometimes happen that way to other people too, you are not only one. If he stopping, forget him, its not fair for you feel that way and feel so hurt. You didnt do anything. all you have to let him go and if he contacts you again, great but dont let it get you fool. good luck!
2007-05-15 10:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that he was just passing time lying to you about all kinds of stuff and he got tired of it. Or he may be having some serious personal issues that he really does need alone time to straighten out. Whatever it it, he most certainly is capable of calling you if he wants to talk to you, so don't bug him by calling him just now. If you don't hear from him an about a month, maybe you could call to ask if he's OK, since you haven't heard from him in a while. If he doesn't sound like he wants to talk, just say, "OK, well, it's been nice talking with you...see you around." and drop it, and him. Get on with your life and meet new people.
2007-05-15 10:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by J J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has someone else...(not to get this in your head...but this happened to me...and it was because he had been seeing another person and wanted something more with that person and not with me.) That or he must really have psychological issues about starting the relationship thing again. Either way...you need to move on...because chances are he does have someone or he'll never committ to you. Spare yourself the agony and start getting over him now. Erase everything and make yourself forget about those moments. This happend to me not too long ago. You have my sympathies...hope everything goes well. Take care
2007-05-15 10:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Ingenua...or something like it 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He gave you his answer sounds like the x is out there somewhere. Say by 2 him he's playing head games with you. Just my thought. Find some 1 that doesn't have issues.
2007-05-15 10:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says he needs some space then maybe thats what you should give him. not to the extent of waiting for him to call but maybe something happened with his son. or with an x. its hard to desifer whats going through a guys mind. give him a few days and just call and ask how he is doing.
2007-05-15 10:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by Destenflea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Sure, there might be something really weird going on, but generally if a guy stops calling he is telling you something, and calling him only tells him that you aren't the one for him. Very few guys appreciate being hounded.
2007-05-15 10:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait it out for a little bit. There's a slight possibility that he is just playing hard to get right now.
If you kept calling him back and calling him back and calling him back, that makes you look desperate, and that's not good.
2007-05-15 10:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him out of the blue once in a while.
2007-05-15 10:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by J Doe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably got back together with an ex or another girl.
2007-05-15 10:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by gh25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else.
He either is not interested or he doesn't want to share his personal life/space with you. He may
2007-05-15 10:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋