When i make out with a guy, i feel embarrassed afterwards cuz i want to know what hes thinking and whats on his mind after making out.
2007-05-15 10:37:13 · 21 answers · asked by Malina Kaui Gazel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you haven't done it often and don't feel comfortable doing it. Sure, making out can be fun with a person you really like and are attracted to, but in a lot of ways you also have to realize it is pretty awkward and weird. It isn't always just simple and natural. Be patient, go slow and learn by doing, seeing and reading. You don;t have to be an expert, you just have to be true to your own feelings.
2007-05-15 10:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Falling over nothing in front of my boyfriend 3 other guy friends and my best friend. I was hyper at the time. Lol. Now they think I'm clumsy! Speaking in front of a group/class/ public speaking make me nervous and my voice automatically goes to the lowest volume possible. :] What also makes me feel embarrassed would be my dad acting like an old man in public! He says 'hello little girl' one day I think someone will hear him and not get that his joking. Now that would be weird. What also makes me embarrassed is when my mum speaks in a different language and I pick up that it's about me! -Jazmine.♥
2016-05-19 02:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing is a very intimate way to communicate with someone. You are giving over an extension of yourself and your emotions. If you do not know the person very well then that can feel very vunerable. It sounds like you really need to feel safe in a situation like this so you don't have to guess about how the other person is going to react. It is natural to feel that way when that physical stuff happens too soon. You might want to see if you can get to know someone a little more and work on something that will involve a real desire to be committed...that will create a safer place for your vunerablity. Otherwise you might just end up being hardened and that will create a wall within yourself that might get in the way of the intimacy you are really going to want to share with someone.
2007-05-15 10:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by Reese 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because you're not confident and secure in yourself. Eventually you have enough experience that you know you're good at it and don't have to worry about that. I think I remember feeling that way when I was about 16-18 or so. It's something all young people probably feel at one time or another. You should be sure you're ready and it's with someone you really like and click with because that helps a lot too! Kissing should be fun not stressful, if it's stressing you out like that maybe you're not ready.
Don't just jump to being physical so that a guy will accept you and think you're hot! It doesn't work that way, it works the opposite. Take your time and only do what you're completely comfortable with.
2007-05-15 10:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by MommyTaylor 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is usually what all people - not just girls - feel after they have been making out with someone. But do you really feel embarassed? If you do, then that's suggesting that YOU think that what you're doing is somehow wrong, or that you shouldn't be doing it. Hopefully you're just feeling a little awkward - which is normal. =) If you want to know what someone is feeling, then just ask them. You might be surprised with what they say. Don't feel embarassed about anything, this is all just a part of growing up! Good luck! =)
2007-05-15 10:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by Vanna Chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you make out sometime it may feel a little weird, but go with it. Look at the persons body language, it never lies. If he leans in for more he's happy with the first, but if he frowns maybe your breath stinks. You want to know whats on a guys mind..nothing only what's going on at that particular time. Men ain't that deep...Trust.
2007-05-15 11:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dutchess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How long have you known the boy? If you are making out with someone you just met then you might have reason to wonder what is going on in his mind.
If you are taking the time to get to know him before hand, then you would know what he is thinking.
Perhaps you could spend sometime talking and getting to know each other first.
2007-05-15 10:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
HELLO YOUR A WOMEN we all want to know what they are thinking after making out . It 's one of 2 things
1. When are we going to do that again
2. sex
2007-05-15 10:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by silver01222000 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you feel embarrassed cuz you know you went against what you wuz brought up.
Plus it is embarrassing when you act on your hormones and against your better judgment once the hormones have calmed down. :)
2007-05-15 10:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's your conscience telling you the right thing....don't make out. You're too young. Wait till you're married.
Otherwise, you'll feel dirty when you later get married. It's hard to wear a white dress then.
Save yourself for the right guy that'll treat you right. He should be well educated, emotionally stable, loving, etc.
You deserve better!!
2007-05-15 10:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Traqqer 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋