I have a question for the ladies about their perspective on something. There is this girl that I like who lives in my complex. I see her, we speak to one another like 2 times thats all. She is leaving to go to work when I'm coming in from work. Also Im wondering if she has a bf or is dating anyone bc I would like to know b4 asking her bc i dont want to make a fool out of myself. She leaves to go out when she gets in thats when im coming back from running. I have never seen her bring a guy or bf back to the complex. Does this mean she is single? What is the best way i should go about talking to her or what should i say to her the next time i see her? I really do like her i feel that she is the most attractive girl. Thanks Ladies,
2007-05-15 09:35:32 · 11 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her!!! if shes talked to you before then that means that she doesn't hate you and if you ask her out and she says no cause shes dating someone or has a boyfriend then say well I'd still like to be friends if that's OK with you and maybe over time she will change her mind if your a nice guy.
2007-05-15 09:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by bethpihlaja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have some kind of party and invite her. Tell her she can bring a friend and see what happens. Invite a few of your friends/relatives as well.
Maybe ball game on TV, something low key with some snacks.
If you place is small have a BBQ somewhere. If she accepts and comes without a BF you will have chance to chat.
2007-05-15 09:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by cathoratio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because she doesnt bring a guy doesnt mean shes single. I would say just start a conversation with her and possibly ask her if she wants to go get a drink or go to get some coffee. See how the conversation goes, if it looks like you can ask her to go out, go for it. If not, then wait till the next time you see her.
2007-05-15 09:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it def does NOT mean shes single!! i never brought my bf's home with me. break the ice with something general, like did you try that new coffee they have at (insert coffee shop here) or have you heard the band (insert local band here). then you can see whether you have this stuff in common, and if she says oh yeah, theyre great, invite her to go see the band with you, or to share a cup of coffee. see where she takes it from there. youll be able to tell by her body language if shes out with you as a friend, or if shes there for more.
2007-05-15 09:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break the ice with her, ask her a trivial question about the weather or whatever. Then ask her if she'd like to get a cup of coffee or something. If she does, then you work your way into a real date.
2007-05-15 09:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by beepbeepwentthecar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best way to know is to ask her if she would like to go for a walk with you or something. if she's available and she likes you she will accept, if she's not available she will let you know at some point. and you don't need to feel like a fool. it's just ok to ask someone you like out.
2007-05-15 09:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by angelina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see her just casually ask her out for a coffee. That is the easiest no pressure scenario.
2007-05-15 09:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say,Hi, i think your very pretty and if you aren't seeing anyone. would you like to going out to eat or something. Be honest, the worst, is she could say no. For Now.
GOD BLESS
2007-05-15 09:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by TCC Revolution 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a little get together at your place with some friends and ask her if she would like to pop in (leave a note in her mailbox or something), you'll get all your answers then
2007-05-15 09:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u may not see her wit a guy but that doesnt mean that she doesnt got one
just ask her out and then if she does ull find out
2007-05-15 09:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by Em 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋