Rite here goes....
I was extremly drunk a couple a weeks ago round town & kissed an absolutly sexy guy b4 I stumbled out the club & we swapped numbers.
We met up for a drink that week, & went ice skating the week after which was fun! We both had a good laugh & I though we got on really well! But the thing is he hardly texts me or replies to any texts I send him!! If he does it takes him anything from hours to days....! So does he like me in the same way I like him or not??
HELP IM REALLY CONFUSED?!?!?
2007-05-15 09:35:18 · 28 answers · asked by atoaly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just a lil extra...
I try & let him txt me 1st, but if he doesn't I only txt him 1 then reply to his I don't pester him constantly! I also reply to his txts askin him general questions like wots he up2 general stuff & don't get a response or just short answers....?
Maybe he's just busy?
But the confusing thing is everytime I go out with him he always goes for the kiss 1st!!! Its not like I'm jumping him lol!
Also no offence taken!
2007-05-15 09:44:29 · update #1
Also he was very drunk too! It wasn't just me!! lol
2007-05-15 09:48:41 · update #2
Don't judge your relationship on the amount of texts. I think that's just ridiculous. I don't revolve my life around text msg. at all. What ever happened to the old fashioned telephone?
2007-05-23 06:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by KOTEHOK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may have misread you. When you met you admit you were drunk. Maybe he is not looking for a serious one to one relationship just something casual. He may think you are the same just wanting fun and no commitment.
Sometimes it takes a while to get over that first impression.
He may have other relationships on the go.
Why not ask him out again but do something like the ice skating ( not drinking) so he can get to know the real you.
Just take it steady don't frighten him away !!!!!
2007-05-15 16:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the thing to remember is not everyone texts back straight away for whatever reason, if i text my sister for instance, she takes ages to reply and when i ask her about it, she tells me that she doesnt look at her phone that often.
It looks as if he likes you or he wouldnt of met up with you twice but he may be wanting something more casual then you maybe do, he may just want to friends with too. The only way you can find out is to ask him next time you meet up. Good luck
2007-05-15 16:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting a guy for the first time is an important milestone and that is why meeting someone when you are dead drunk is always going to be his first, lasting impression of you. I would say this is going to take time, and at least some effort to prove that this was not normal for you - or how is he going to take you seriously. Girls fall into two categories..those he wants to marry and those he wants to bonk. Id try again with someone else if you want a lasting relationship/
2007-05-15 16:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by Pan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I don't buy it whenever someone texts me then I will text or call them back if I can. I will go out of my way to put money on my mobile to text back, but then I've never had any experience with dating guys so I may just be weird in the texting sense. Don't text him for a while and see what happens if he doesn't text you then sorry to say this but you can't be on his mind all the time.
2007-05-21 06:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the feeling he's got a girlfriend. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you, or that he doesn't have a good time if and when you go out, but that he will not offer anything more than that.
(I know many people that are in steady relationships and behave exactly like that.)
Don't text him at all, if he is really interested you'll know..
2007-05-23 07:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know that some guys don't like the idea of people text messaging them especially if you are grown. They look at it as if it is childish. They rather talk them text.
Even if he replies it take him forever to answer maybe you should ask him if he likes the idea of you text messaging him all the time.
Good Luck
2007-05-23 14:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by Nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u text him too much, or ya done sumint on a date that he dint like n is tryin to distance himself from u *no offence* or it could be there's another girl involved, wait for him to text u or when u next bump into him out on the 'town' n see how it goes, relaz enjoy the attention dont expect the world out of it
2007-05-15 16:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by *sarah* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this guy could be married or have a girlfriend. If you were married wouldn't you me a little hesitant to reply text-es and calls? I could be wrong but I think that if he was busy at work or something, he would tell you. good luck and I hope I'm wrong for your sake.
2007-05-23 10:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just shy, you should let him text you before you next get back to him though, he'd be crazy to let a gorgeous girl like you go, if all else fails then undo his harness on 'The Oblivion' and watch him plumet to his death!!!......and then go back out and find someone who appreciates you x
2007-05-16 14:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋