ok so my best friend ever in the whollllle world has a bf. I guess you can say that i dont really like the kid to much. like its not cuz im jealous or anything but theres something about him period. but i do have to admit that i do get really jealous sometimes cuz he tries to rub it in all the time that hes spending more time than i am with her. alsoooo today is her birthday and hes at her house right now and i figured im not going cuz of that and she didnt even put up a fight for me coming over...like i dont know how to explain it....she can atleast pretend that she cares right? :(.....i feel so left out that i cant tlak to anyone anymore...especially since im pretty much the only one who doesnt have a bf of all my friends..so now i cant talk to them anymore..
idk what to do and im not just being a jealous baby...someone please to talk to me...especially since i cant talk to anyone else....thankxxxx
2007-05-15 09:28:36 · 4 answers · asked by i_luv_grammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
heyy i just wanted to add that i wasnt blowing off my friends party...it just kinda felt like i wasnt invited...so i dont wanan seem like a childish baby/ bithc...lol...and i do have a bunch of different firneds ..but shes the friend where you cant get sick of or you can talk to her bout everything...u know what i mean?????
2007-05-15 09:41:21 · update #1
It's very normal for you to be feeling left out and a bit jealous. However, it is also perfectly normal for your friend/s to be spending more time with boyfriends than their "best friends" during this phase of growing up.
Try to make some new friends, some people with the same hobbies you have. The more friends you have, the more you will be able to spend time with at least someone.
You might also consider a volunteer activity or something to help keep you busy.
Msg me via my 360 page if you would like to talk anytime, I am an old Gramma, LOL.
2007-05-15 09:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your dilemma, but you'll have to accept it. Why not meet new friends since all of your besties have b/f's & hang out w/ them more often? You shouldn't make your friend choose between you both it's unfair to her because either way she loses! I know your irritated that yours & your friends relationship is changing, but it happens. Also try not to let it show when her b/f does rub stupid stuff like that in your face, it only makes him happier! I'm sorry again, but try making new friends..........boy & girl!!!! Hope everything works out for you!
2007-05-15 16:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by missorange 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to grow up. So your friend prefers to spend more time with her boyfriend than you. Doesn't matter if you don't like him. It's not up to you. She'll still be your friend. Let her relationship proceed the way they want and stay out of it. Don't blow off her birthday party - that's being childish. You are jealous and whining about it.
2007-05-15 16:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by beepbeepwentthecar 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell her what you just told us.
2007-05-15 16:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋