Why am I so ugly?

Question

I am so hairy. Then I have medium lips but not huge lips. I have cute eyes. I hate my hair. And I have glasses so that hides my eyes. And I have hair on my upper lip and nose hair. How can I get pretty. I mean I think I can be pretty but HOW? Dont say that be happy for who you are i tried but cant

my mom wont let me i keep telling her that everyone else has contacts but no cause my stupid docter said if you think i am resposible enough and then she says that the appropritate age is in 9th grade oh my gosh i am in 6th now

did i meantion the my teeth are crooked i am going to the dentist to see what i need for my teeth maybe i will be pretty in my next birth

How can I tell my mom to get me contacts? MY LIFE IS MISERABLE

Answer 1

In that case then..... wax your upper lip, trim your nose hair and go see a stylist... DUH!

Answer 2

A lot of women have to deal with some hair on the upper lip, that can be waxed, and nose hair trimmed. Medium lips sounds very normal. Do you really need huge lips? Does every woman you consider beautiful have huge lips? As for the glasses, see about getting some cuter frames if you can. Go and get a new haircut if you feel that might help too. Wear a little make up to accentuate your face when you go out and some cute clothes. And last but not least, stop comparing yourself to celebrities as I imagine you are doing. They have 3 hours of hair and make up, designer clothes and eat like rabbits to get the desired look we all see. Bet they look like crap in the morning! Some people are more attractive than others but that doesn't mean people can't make themselves better. It takes some effort, grooming and confidence to make it work for you.

Answer 3

How old are you? At a certian age, just about EVERYONE thinks that they are ugly. If you are 12 to 17, you may be going through this. But here are a few tips.

You can get facial hair removed with wax. You can get it done professionaly or by a kit at the store.

Get contacts. All it takes is a trip to the eye doctor and a perscription, and they are not that expensive.

It is hard to tell what you mean when you say you hate your hair. Do you mean its frizzy? Or too curly or straight? If you have damaged hair, you can get special shampoo that will moisturize and take away frizz. If you don't like your hair because it is too curly or too straight, you can buy a hair straightener for about 25 dollars, or a curling iron. I use a conair straightener I got at Target and it works just fine.


I know what you mean when you tell people not to say "Be happy" and all that crap. I totally understand how you feel and people blabbing away like that does NOT help, I know. I wish you the best of luck, and have fun!


addition:

since you can't get glasses, just ask for some cute ones with smaller frames. Glasses can make you look GOREGEOUS, don't worry about those! And for the teeth, I don't think you can do anything about that until you get braces, but be patient, and soon you will have a beautiful smile! I remember, I had to wait FOR EVER to get braces, and that pretty much sucks. But be patient!!!

Answer 4

My guess is that you are 12 at the oldest. Now is the time in your life when you are going to be the most insecure with who you are. You can't be THAT hairy. Medium lips are just fine and you have cute eyes. The eyes are what people notice first. So I don't think you have anything against you yet.

Hate your hair, huh. Well, if it is too thin, use a mousse and blow dry it upside down, that may help. Call a local salon in town and tell them what it is about your hair that you hate. They may have an idea for you. Get color done only at a salon. Ask your mom to go to a Mary Kay consultant with you, and she can help with some make-up tips for a girl your age.

Answer 5

You first must decide that you are a beautiful young lady. Feel it on the inside before you start enhancing the outside.

If your mom and doctor do not think you are ready for contacts, try on different glasses. I am sure you will find some that fit for face. Avoid glasses too big or small for your face. Also braces may be the way to go. Getting your teeth straighten really enhances one's look. After you get them taken off, whiten them with Crest White Strips. Whiter teeth can make a difference. For your hair, go to a different beautician and ask him/her to give you a new look. Get it layered or cut or wear a curly or straight look. If you are old enough invest in good make up products including face washing at night and moisturizing. Hope all this helps

Answer 6

Just use blach on the hairs you dont like. Removing them will just make them grow back HAIRIER. Maybe you can dye or highlight your hair. I dont know what kind of hair you have but if you got curly hair, straighten it. If you cant afford a hair straightner, use an iron. Just put a small towel so you dont burn your hand. I do this and it works like a charm. Maybe you can wear contacts and play up your eyes a little with eye shadows and mascara but dont do too much. Im sure your really pretty. I used to feel like you but I expirament alot with my hair and stuff. Just have confidence in yourself and KNOW that you can be beautiful by just ehancing it. No need for surgery or cosmetic stuff. Look at people who try cosmetic surgery, they come out looking worse than when they went in and you dont want that. Just look around the house and read magazines to get ideas. Good luck, love.

Answer 7

How old are u?
Being hairy is no problem, u can wax, bleach or shave it.
Medium lips are fine, u can make an outline outside with a lipliner & then fill in with lipstick or lipgloss to make themlook lusher.
You can go to a salon and have agood haircut. They'd give u tips on how to maintain it. Wash regularly and condition. Oiling helps too. But a good cut is a must.
Hair again can be plucked.
Theres nothing that cant be fixed. If u are below 15, u have to wait till u grow up a bit and then try all this.

Answer 8

for the upper lip hair, just get upper lip hair remover (you can buy this at wall-mart or usually any local drug store) or you can get it permenentyl romoved by a surgeon. (way more expensive though!)

and for the eyes, get contacts, or more stylish glasses that will show off your eyes! do you wear eye makeup? to make your eyes pop wear only eye liner in the TOP eyelid, and make it a little thiker than usual... and and use a really good mascara!

and medium lips are beautiful! you don't want HUGE lips or really TINY lips! so your lips are perfect! just take care of them with chapstick so they look smooth and sexy..

and for hair..go to a stylist.. you didn't say what was wrong with it! so can't help there..

;) good luck!

Answer 9

Honey, why are you being so negative about yourself. Simply change your hair style for one that you think suits you better. Get some new glasses with smaller frames. Buy some hair removal cream for your upper lip and there is a,little gizmo you can buy to get the hair out of your nose. All of these things are so simple, and when you are done, you will look like a million dollars.

Answer 10

all girls feel like this at some point - so your not alone - and your still young and your still changing - everyone feels awkward at this age - I did. but lip liner can help with your lips and hair can be managed - i didnt think so either at your age but after a while you learn what tricks to do to make it behave. some glasses can be very cute and the hair can be removed with products you can get at walmart even

Answer 11

If you're hairy, get a professional waxing or start shaving. For your lips, use lip volumizer/plumper and a good lipgloss. If you hate your hair, get a makeover. If you don't like your glasses, get contacts. Upper lip hair----wax, as stated above. For your entire face, get a makeup consultation and makeover with a makeup artist at your local department store. If you want a total overhaul like this, don't expect to get it done by yourself. On the other hand, you could enlist the help of some friends.