My ex boyfriend and I live in nearby towns and I am bound to see him often this summer. Meanwhile, the guy I sometimes hook up with also lives in my town. My ex has no idea that I am sort of with this guy. Does this mean I have to not kiss my current guy in front of my ex out of respect? I would never want to hurt my ex like that and wouldn't really want him to do it to me... but I want to move on and be able to publicly show affection for my current guy. I also don't want to create unneccessary drama, but I dont want to have to hide all summer...
2007-05-15 08:54:50 · 39 answers · asked by murphy11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from all the answers id like to say NO i do NOT want to make him jealous, hence why i dont want to hurt him by being seen with a new guy, especially one he knows bc we live in the same area...
2007-05-15 09:24:49 · update #1
Are you worried your ex might pound the living s**t out of this guy or what? If he does, press charges.
2007-05-15 08:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Luey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whilst is it ok? on no account interior the examples you used while you're in a dedicated relationship. You sound youthful and he honestly does if would not discover it somewhat unusual or uncomfortable that his exes are slapping him on the butt. Adults that are strictly friendly exes usually touch one yet another besides the shown fact that it may well be, for example, a congratulatory hug, or pat on the arm/ returned for super information like an engagement, enormous interest promo, business enterprise launch, and so on. there is on no account something sexual approximately it whilst that's perfect. How a guy ( he in all probability isn't one yet) acts in ALL circumstances is a extensive window to who he's as a guy or woman. you're no longer liking what you spot, so he in all probability isn't the guy for you. that's how we be certain who, or what form of peron we would desire to finally end up with. that's all a gaining knowledge of curve.
2017-01-09 22:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by garriga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your ex is your ex for a reason.if your ex so happens to be in the same public place as you and your current guy then at least try not to do it on purpose.act normal like any normal couple would act dont rub it in his face. of course you wouldnt want to see your ex kissing a new gf in front of you but you know you arent together anymore for a reason so you both should just move on
2007-05-15 08:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever watched people kissing for a long time, I haven't. I would think that there would not be a lot of kissing out in public, and if you are very young, don't grow up to fast. Every relationship brings memories, and the memories can move right into the next relationship. There are far to many people whom think they have to be in a relationship in order to make them feel wanted, or needed. Moving into relationships with the wrong person happens usually because they are focused on a persons looks, or sex. Looks, nor sex should not determine who you are with, because if they look very nice, and like to have sex with a lot of people you are going to be hurt.
2007-05-15 09:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by findinggodsmissions@yahoogroups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're nothing more than a peice of a trash. If you are not with your EX that why the f*ck u care if you kiss your new bf infront of him or not.you just wanna rub it in ur ex face and try to make him jealous.let me tell you..being a guy i won't give even a chit to whatever u do in front of me if u were my EX.
Cos for me ex is an EX for a reason . Get that in your head cos your ex probably is over you but you aren't.
2007-05-15 09:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your Ex, then he is just like anyone else. It shouldn't matter who's around, if you really want to kiss the guy. Don't kiss someone JUST because your Ex is around. That's going to send the wrong signals to others, and won't help anything.
2007-05-15 08:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by Alan F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should video yourself going down on the new guy and send it to your ex. That way if he sees you kissing the new guy out in public it won't seem like a big deal, he's seen worse.
2007-05-15 08:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by readvonnegut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex ... you shouldn't even care because ... he's your ex. So if you want to kiss your current bf in front of your ex, go ahead, but you shouldn't do it to make him jealous. That's just stupid, and also don't be doing too much PDA because no one likes that.
2007-05-15 08:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a couple things. primarily, if your break up w/ the ex was fairly recent, since you don't want to hurt him it probably would be kinder to not have as much PDA while he is there. but then again he is your EX boyfriend so in reality it shouldnt bother you....
2007-05-15 08:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by drummer girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break it to the x that you have moved on. But be gentle. Then tell your current the situation. Don't kiss excesivly. Good Luck!
2007-05-15 08:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by brad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋