to be able to look at another girl? me and my girl broke up and i am heartbroken - i dont even want to look at another girl - it feels like im never going to get that chemistry that i had with her again -
2007-05-15 08:42:06 · 23 answers · asked by anthony c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's different for everyone. It depends on how close the two of you were. You'll know when it's time. Be patient...you may think there is no one in the world that could make you feel batter than what you have in the past, but again, be patient, it's a big world out there. You'll know it when that special someone comes around.
2007-05-15 08:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by Micah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. How long? Probably until you see her in a happy relationship with someone else. You see, heartbroken my friend is a state of mind, not a medical condition. (And don't anyone go giving me a bunch of grief over how you may physically feel after a break-up. I.E., sick to your stomach, feeling a pain in your chest, or general lethargic nature. It's all psycho-sematic and you know it.) At this point you morn her loss primarily due to the fact that you don't know anyone else like her that is willing to do for you the things that she did. If you broke up though, it's a sign that she didn't want to do that stuff either. Other woman at this point will seem distant/unreachable in comparison because your chances of finding someone your going to like/love is a heck of a struggle and challenge. There's alot of dead end streets in finding someone compatible, but it is possible. You found your ex didn't you. As far as chemistry goes- do a little research. Chemistry is a science, not a mythical joining of two souls. You make chemistry through one heck of alot of trial and error. Most great chemistry experiments were not heralded by the phrase "Eureka, I've found it!", but rather by "Hmmm, that's strange." Think about it.
2007-05-15 16:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Robert J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take as long as you need. You will move on when your heart is ready. Just make sure when you go w/ another girl that you don't eagerly open your heart to her. Take your next relationship slow, but if you like her not too slow or you will send her mixed signals. A soon heartbreak after another makes things worse. Also, you need to get your mind off of your ex. Spend some time w/ the guys or w/ your family. Do something that makes you happy. Don't sit around alone thinking about her, because that could make the process of getting over her even longer. I'm sure your guy pals can help you out. Get out of the house, go for a drive, just free your mind of heartache. Remind yourself that this is not the end of the world. You will find the girl you were truly meant to be w/ and you two will be happy together, and she won't break your heart. Hang in there. Just let time run its course. All things heal in time. Remember that. Sorry about the break up, but you will be fine. SMILE : )
2007-05-15 15:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may take a little while before anyone really appeals to you again...take your time. There are over 3+ billion women on the planet, so trust she was NOT the best of the bunch. You may never have that exact chemistry again, but that doesn't mean you won't have better chemistry with someone else.
The sun will shine again...hang in there. âº
2007-05-15 15:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you think about your past girl friend. Out of sight out of mind, it is a lot easier to get her out of your sight, out of your mind you will have to work on it. What your thoughts are will make it a lot easier. When something like this happens it may be hard, but their is another girl out there which will be better. Just don't push it, wait for the best in order for it to be the best. The older you get the more you will focus on the quality of a person inside a relationship. Number 1 rule, It is not healthy to be infatuated with someone who does not want to be with you.
2007-05-15 15:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by findinggodsmissions@yahoogroups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who has been in your position. You will most definitely like another girl. Besides when one door closes another door opens. Maybe this girl wasn't the one for you. However, if you allow yourself to think that there will never be anyone else out there for you, then you will miss out on the opportunity to date another girl if the opportunity presents itself. Take some time and then move on, but still remain friends with her. If all this fails ask to get back with her.
2007-05-15 15:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by Squeeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best I can tell you is this. Move on with your life ona day to day basis dont look for another girl just try to get over the girl of your dreams and my guess is you wont even be looking for her she ill just be there
2007-05-15 15:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Catie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really feels that way for eveyone who has ever had that great chemistry wit someone. You'll get over it. It may take a while but think happy thoughts. we all feel like there is no one special enough for us out there sometmes.
2007-05-15 15:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry
you are going through a hard time (i know), so you should let go of the past and look forward 2 the future !!
:) 8) ;)
2007-05-15 15:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by Unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no answer. It all depends on you & wether or not your ready to start seeing other women. Just give yourself some time to heal & then jump in when your ready. Sorry, hope you feel better soon!
2007-05-15 15:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by missorange 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋