I made out with my female friend! Now what?

Question

So for the last couple weeks, ive been tryin to hook up w/ my closest female friend, and finally last night, we were watching a movie, getting close, and then FINALLY made out. After, we just grabbed our stuff and went home, we're suppose to hang out later tonight. It seemed all was normal on our ride back home. Should i try to talk to her about last night? or just try and make out w/ her again? Please HELP

Answer 1

why are these situations so hard for us all, you know having a close friend and trying to make more than just a friendship out of it. heres the thing you have one really great thing going fo you, she likes you more than a friend, she made out with you! so now you have to ask yourself do you want to become more than friends, which it sounds like you do. don't over analyse the situation because it will slow the process, you need to go for it and make her realize that last nights kiss wasnt normal friendship stuff "she knows it already". so get close to her and make another move tonight when you feel the mood is right
good luck

Answer 2

I dont know, it depends on if she wanted it too. Since you were friends before all the sexual tension, you probably will be able to talk about it with her. Do you think that it has been wanted on her side as well? That makes a big difference. Also if you really like her then either way I would ask (whether she seemed like it was coming or not). Nothing is worse then when you like someone and its just tipped toed around because no one wants to ask. But you must keep in mind, if you do go ahead and ask her what it was all about be prepared that it might make things a little weird within the friendship (if she says that it was nothing) and will have to take the next step (if it did mean something).

Answer 3

Are you saying you want her to be your girlfriend? Frankly, it's my experience that unless there is an explicit conversation about the nature of a relationship and the meaning of "hooking up," it can result in someone getting hurt.

Also, some females will go along with it, hoping it'll lead to a relationship, even though they wouldn't have chosen to have the encounter that way. I hear that this feels like a fun thing to do, but consider the consequences of hooking up without being on the same page about it. Or, even if you do want her to be your girlfriend, it can feel less than honorable to have the relationship start that way, and that can damage one's self esteem.

Answer 4

What do you want to happen? If you want more than friendship, then continue to slowly continue the process. Don't rush in and start making plans like you're a couple. Let it happen naturally. If you don't want more than friendship, don't let it proceed. Find other things to talk about and shy away from the "natural" process.

Answer 5

Just let it flow, sounds like your doing it right, last night when it happened bet you didn't wonder then, it will be the same for tonight, good luck and be a gentleman

Answer 6

Try talking to her ask her i she liked last night or not. The relationship will go farther and last longer if your open and honest from the start.

Answer 7

jst be a gentalmen. let it flow and things should be ok. lastnight went great for you im sre if she found things akward u wouldnt be hangin out tonight or she would have told you it was a mistake you two are just friends she must like you. so let things flow. good luck!

Answer 8

It's called friends with benefits. Great stuff if it works. Just go with it, if it flops well lots of friends to meet out there yet.

Answer 9

Just make out again, it will grow into becoming boyfriend, girlfriend.

Answer 10

if she wants to be with you she will let u know in some kind of way. maybe she like and doesnt dare say anything either. ask
her?