I have been going out with the most amazing girl for 6 months now and I'm having feelings that I don't think she has for me. She's the only girl I've ever dated and the only one I want. She has had previous boyfriends in the past and I want to know everything that happened. She told me a brief story about them but I feel she's hiding something. Her mood also lately has changed dramatically and she is more distant and weird around me. I think she wants to tell me something or is guilty of something that she is afraid to tell me. Please, how do I save myself from my constant panicking and worrying for the worst.
-WorriedLover
2007-05-15 08:37:38 · 8 answers · asked by aidenfan22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her, thats about all you can do... make it easy for her to open up and tell you everything, especially if you think he is hiding something from you... women dont tell men everything because we are afraid of more questions.. keep them to a minimum... best of luck
2007-05-15 08:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You became attached too soon and you freaked her out!
You ruined the attraction she once had for you!
Its over but she doesn't want to break your heart!
Give her a lot of space!
Don't chase her if she breaks up with you.
You will want to but you must not chase her!
Anyways bro, don't really worry about it, there are a lot of other women out there who are as wonderful if not more than this one!
If this is the first woman you've dated, how do you know if she is the 'most amazing'?
Get out there and date A LOT of women! Only then will you be able to know if she is the 'most amazing'!
2007-05-15 15:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jeremy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to be attached to your first love, but she might be hiding something, you need to ask her strait up what she thinks about your relationship. If she asks why tell her the truth, that you feel like your loosing her. She should be honest. You should tell yourself that she is only one person, so if she lost her feelings for you, it may hurt, but u can move on. If not then you will be happy either way. The only difference is, that you might end up with someone you truly love more in the future.
I hope this makes sense. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-05-15 15:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by crazybitch_troy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah.. i seriously thought you were my boyfriend for a second... i mean our situations are so similar that you honestly could be him haha.
Anyways... my advice to you is to forget about those other guys. If she is with you now then it means she doesn't care for them anymore.. they are out of her life and they don't mean anything!! Knowing every little detail about their relationship will just be torture for you. Do everything in your power to not think about them. She might be acting wierd around you for a variety of reasons and it doesn't mean she doesn't care for. Honestly it could be anything, us girls get distant like that sometimes, but usually it passes. Just remind her how much you care for her and ask her if she feels the same. Let her now that if there is something she wants to talk about then she can tell you and you wont be angry with her. Also, its important to understand that there will be times in your relationship where you wont feel exactly the same about each other. There might be times where you love her more or she loves you more.. but thats ok. You guys will progress at different speeds and you need to accept that and let each other grow into at your own pace.
2007-05-15 15:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably being distant because she doesn't want to talk about her past. She wants to concentrate on her current relationship. I don't think it is important for you to know everything that happened between here past relationships. I don't think you learning the past would help any, if anything it would only hurt your relationship more. I know that probably doesn't make any sense but I bet I'm right. I used to ask my husband about his past too but I always ended up getting my feelings hurt.
2007-05-15 15:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by **Angel** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE isn't making you worry, YOU are. She can't "make" you do anything...as for her past, it's not really your business (esp "everything that happened"). You are getting much too carried away, and may well drive her off.
Back off and realize this is your first relationship, and won't be your last...the feelings are strong, because they are new. It takes a while to learn how to socialize on this level and what relationships are about. Take it slow, and relax...
2007-05-15 15:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and express your feelings to her.
2007-05-15 15:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask or forever hold your tongue!
2007-05-15 15:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋