and try to get with her in a boyfrend/girlfriend relationship.
2007-05-15 08:21:19 · 16 answers · asked by Geno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You gotta take the plunge even though it is scary and you may get rejected but you'll never know if you don't try. Just go up and talk to her. Don't use BS lines or try to spin game, girls hate that. Be real and see what happens.
Good luck!
2007-05-15 08:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to where shes at but stay away from her ooooo about twenty feet. Smile and make eye contact with her. When she does this back lock eyes and walk directly up to her and say hello. If she says hi ask her how shes doing today. She will naturally reply good or fine. This is the time to be witty and say yes you are but look her in the eyes when you say that. After that invite her to go for some coffee or something. Now if your a teenager give her a letter in her locker. Write something sweet like a poem and then ask her if she would like to go out for some pizza or whatever it is ya'll do these days. Make sure your standing across from her locker when she reads the letter. Walk up to her no matter even if her buddies are around and say so what do you think!
2007-05-15 08:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by waltdawg3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make small talk, but don't do a pickup line. Be yourself! Try complimenting her, girls love that. And ask her something about herself, her name, where she's from. Once you start talking, it'll probably come easier. Make sure you show interest towards her, but don't be too pushy. Do realize that relationships take time, you could ask her on a date, but don't ask her to be your girlfriend. Take your time, don't rush things. If you're meant to be together than you are, so what's the rush. Be funny, make her laugh. Be flirty, have fun. Don't be afraid of her, or rejection. That's what life's all about, you don't want to have to wonder, what if. After maybe chitchatting for a bit, tell her you're interested in getting to know her and see if she'd want to hang out. Good luck! just do it!
2007-05-15 08:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by cjb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first thing man you have to understand is that you can not "make" someone get into something if they don't want to. Just take it slow.
I don't know the situation that you guys are in. Meaning where you've seen her and things like that. But I would just walk up to her and introduce yourself. Tell you notice her (fill in the blank) and that you wan't to talk.
Go from there, at that point you should be able to tell whether she is feelin it or not.
2007-05-15 08:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she woke up, she showered. spent an hour straightening and drying her hair, put on make up, called her friend and asked what shirt goes best with what pants and put on good smelling perfume just to go to the grocery store.
ya know why?
cuz she wants a total stranger to just walk up and ask her out. so when you see her, whoever she is where ever you see her, walk up and take her.
it is not rude. you are not hitting on her like a guy trying to line up pusy for the end of the night at a bar. you are a guy who spotted a pretty girl and wants to take her on a date, excuse you for being a man. so, since your such a man, why don't you just walk up to her and say "hey, this might be kind of weird, or maybe with a girl like you this happens all the time but when i saw you i had to ask if a girl like you would let me take her on a date"
nothing stupid, no pick up line, nothing clever. just walk up and say it how it is. "girl you are absolutely gorgeous, i want you"
2007-05-15 08:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by killa' fo' real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try too hard! Be nice, polite and courteous. Don't shower her with gifts or compliments because you could seem fake and / or desperate. Or creepy.
Suggest going to get lunch or coffee before dinner or drinks. And, most importantly, be very honest about how you feel about her. Playing games is a BIG mistake!
Navtej Kohli
2007-05-15 08:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by Navtej Kohli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start getting to know her! Just start have a regular conversation and don't make it too obvious that you're flirting, because not a lot of girls like that. Ask her a lot of questions about her life and compare it to yours. That is a good way to start a conversation. Message me if you need more help!
2007-05-15 08:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start to get to know her and introduce yourself. You dont want to rush into anything and scare her away. Just introduce yourself and hope for the best. Try being smooth
2007-05-15 08:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Strike up casual conversation and flirt subtly but let her know you're at least interested in getting to know her on some level by the way you act around her (you don't have to shout, "I like you, please, please go out with meee" for her to figure it out).
*If it's in a class, ask something, anything, she may know so that she can "explain it to you." Try and ask something that can lead to conversation about something else.
*If it's at work, just give a friendly hello and comment on anything.
*Props help, so look around to see if she's holding a book, listening to music, etc. and ask about her interests-people always like to talk about themselves.
Good luck!!! :)
2007-05-15 08:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk and try to get to knowher better. That's how relationships start.
2007-05-15 08:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋