what do i do if as i'm waiting for her to decide if she wants to pursue this relationship i am falling in love with her not knowing if she's even going to want to be with me
2007-05-15 08:06:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't wait, that's foolish. Go about your life as you would if she weren't an issue. If you happen to meet someone you like, then pursue that. There's no point in sitting around waiting for someone who may well never choose in your favor...this life is too short to "wait" for others to decide our life path.
2007-05-15 08:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi , it is yash don't know ur name but i think u are a nice guy . If u meet him first time and fall in love with him then don't lose hope . Meet him and tell him the feeling of ur heart with out any pressure and if u don't have so much dare to tell him Truth then just mail him ur felling.
2007-05-15 08:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by coolyash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From previous experience people saying they are not ready for a relationship is a nice way of saying i don't want a relationship with you. Sorry i know thats not what you wanted to here...
Without putting pressure on her tell her how you feel and if she doesn't feel the same then sorry to say perhaps you should move on
2007-05-15 08:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her.
If you don't tell her how you feel you may never get what you want. You don't want to stay in the relationship thinking she will change her mind with out telling her how you feel. and you don't want to move on not knowing if she was just scared for falling in love and telling you howshe feels. you need to start the conversation. Good Luck!
2007-05-15 08:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Danger, danger Will Robinson!
I've been there. If she doesn't know, she doesn't want a relationship. Seriously listen to her and don't get too involved, it sucks a LOT when it ends and you love them more than the other way around.
2007-05-15 08:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say move on. If she's saying she's not sure she wants a relationship, she likes you, but not enough to want to be with you. Stop now before you're in over your head and find somebody who's ready to be with you.
2007-05-15 08:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait without putting too much pressure on her. Express your true feelings and gauge her reaction. Make sure you're really falling in love and not just infatuated.
2007-05-15 08:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by nburton1981 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks like she's not willing to be the kind of girlfriend you want her to be. In that case, your feeling is a selfish desire to possess her.
I think being a little less available will make you seem more attractive to her.
2007-05-15 08:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by maxnull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better ask her sooner than later to be sure if she does or doesnt want to you dont want to fall in deeper for her and get hurt if shes says no.
2007-05-15 08:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy! Ask her and if she is not being truthful then you have no other choice but to move on. But, NOW before your feelings for this person grow deeper.
2007-05-15 08:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by blue000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋