I fell in love with this guy. Most people have told me, why did I even consider goin out with such a "nerd"? He was shorter than me and like they said he was, "out of my league".
But he was such a nice guy, he told me I was beautiful, that he wanted to go out with me, that he liked me so much! You know, that kinda crap. Well we never, ever dated....... Mostly my fault for not saying yes. But after a while, like I said...... I fell in love with him...
Anyway after I came back from a two week holiday to Australia.... I found out he had just got a girlfriend!!! It really hurt. I mean, he KNEW I liked him, and I KNEW he liked me........ At least I thought he did!! People say "get over that geek"... But I saw him for what he was, a really great guy...
Last friday, he brought his girlfriend to my youth group. He kinda showed off with her, french kissing and stuff right in front of me!! He is rubbing it in my face all the time~~
What should I do?? I don't hate him, I'm just hurt
2007-05-15 08:01:44 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be fair...it sounds like you did the heartbreaking to begin with. He was the one who showed a lot of interest in you and even asked you out while you turned him down. You realize that it was your fault, which is good. It's not that he has the "nerve" to "rub it in your face," because HE was the one who was heartbroken first. If you never told him how you felt about him, you can't blame the guy for trying to move on with a different girl. It's a little strange that he is making out with her in front of you...but maybe in a weird way he's trying to tell you: "this could have been you." This is unfortunate...but there is really nothing you can do, unless talk to him about how you feel. Good luck. :)
2007-05-15 08:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by peachy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he asked to go out with you, you said no, and he got a different chick instead, and you're upset...why?
I don't believe this is even real.
2007-05-15 08:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't even talk to him. That was rude that. If he really liked you then he would have never dated that girl.
2007-05-15 08:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Shylee V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Out of sight, out of mind" --- Avoid him like the plague or take him adding salt to your wounds ... there's no grey here ... just get away!!!
2007-05-15 08:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋