(A very beautiful one)
Boy, be honest, your secret methods, please !
Girls, what would you like your boyfriend (or potential boyfriend) speak about with you ?
(Don't hesitate to speek of your one experience)
(If my question look interesting, don't forget putting a star !)
2007-05-15
07:53:36
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry for that "land", all what I meant was : "What's the best way to speak with a girl for the first once".
Not angry, Punklady, JustMe and LuckFord ?
2007-05-15
08:03:21 ·
update #1
I had the same problem when I was in college. Well, almost the same. As for me I has no problem attracting women,( the main reason is because of my"natural" hazel light brown eyes) but could not keep them for very long. I faltered at basic conversation. this was until a not so older friend gave me the best advice of time. This works today and I've passed this on to my 14 year old son.
This is it. When you first approach a lady you speak then use an adjective complement. For example: Hello pretty. How are you doing? Another example is: Hey love. My name is .........
Do this to "every girl you speak to. Before long it will become second nature to you. You can also use this to stop a girl that is wearing sweet smelling perfume. Example: Hey pretty excuse me, but that's a nice fragrance that you are wearing.
Using these methods have gotten me sooo much pussy I could not believe that something that easy as to the way you first speak to a woman can change your whole game around.
One more tip. Don't forget to smile when you speak, this give the indication that you are sincere, and maybe you are. Try it.
What do you have to loose, but so much girls to gain.
2007-05-15 08:17:45
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answered by Dennis K. B C 2
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Well, first of all you don't refer to it as "landing" a girl. That's fairly derisive and condescending. Also, you don't use other people's ideas. You speak for yourself, and be yourself. If you are using a false front and being what other people told you to be, what's going to happen later down the line when you have nobody to hold your hand and tell you what to do? It's best to look for someone that likes you for YOU, not what other people told you to be. Go to places that interest you. Look at the girls around there. Talk to some of them. You already know you have one thing in common. Take it from there.
2007-05-15 08:00:05
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answered by gilgamesh 6
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I'm speaking from experience here. The best way to "land" any girl is to not wanna land at all. If you show her she means the world to you, and that all you wanna do is fly away with her...if its meant to be she'll come, and ya'll will land together. From brotha to brotha, no bull
2007-05-23 07:08:04
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answered by Supaboy Kaotik D 2
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Try to find some common ground with the girl to talk about. Girls love it when you pay close attention to the details. It could be the smallest things but you will win her over! So listen up!
2007-05-15 07:57:19
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answered by akskdm3 2
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Ok. Be yourself. If your naturally a jerk. it wont work. But be honest, sincere, caring and treat her with respect. DOnt lie or try to get her in the bed. be friends first. dont let her think you want to be more than friends. girls hate that. just act like a friend and she will come on to you.
2007-05-15 07:57:44
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answered by WaLLfloWer 2
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With my fiance, all I really did was talk, talk, talk. Make her laugh and just be me. If she likes you for who you say you are, then half the work is done. We were friends for a good while and hung out, and then one day decided... hey we like each other ALOT, and make each other happy, let's be together. Never looked back since.
No line, tactic, trick, whatever. Just be who you are, and make her laugh.
2007-05-15 07:57:20
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answered by Mimo 2
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The FAA doesn't issue permits/licenses to people who can't land one without scratching the paint. Watch MaxX for reference as to what happens when you land one wrong! Be it a girl/plane/car/??
2007-05-15 08:01:57
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answered by pappyld04 4
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simple, talk to them.
really no joke.
think of it this way, many little fishes swimming in the see,
you sure do have to through your bait out quite a few times,
but you''l learn techneques,
one i find is fun is using a rotten way,
i'll wind her up give her a stupid name, making sure she is laughing. I stay really serous.
you must make sure that you are very energetic, and ready to put up a fight, don't go get her a drink if she asks,
one thing i do tend to avoid is weight, only after the first time can you take the piss out of her weight etc, - in a joking matter- oh and don't forget the 2day rule.
2007-05-15 07:55:30
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answered by wonderboy 2
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Jus B urself
2007-05-23 06:47:02
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answered by gottaknow 2
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ill tell you what has worked for me in the past. start of by being a good friend but make sure you dont get stuck in the friend zone show her you are trustworthy and interesting. good luck dude
2007-05-15 07:57:06
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answered by Anonymous
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