Will ugly woman always be lonely, even Thor they have a lot of love to give the right man?

Question

I am not what you call the best looking woman in the word. I don't have the perfect body. I don't have long hair or pretty feel, even thor I get petercares ever week. I tried to look like a woman, however I have such manly features that no matter what I do, people still question my sex. Which make me ask the question. Do ugly woman ever find love?

Answer 1

i am sorry to tell you this, but not likely. only someone disabled or retarded enough would. not trying to be rude just being honest.

Answer 2

Even thor I get petercares every week?

Well if your stupid and ugly things seem pretty bleak.

But, wait! You may have a quaint, simple appeal often found on beautiful farm hands- a simple honest, bounteous charm that many men find irresistable.
The perfect body doesn't exist, so don't worry about that one (everyone, and I mean EVERYONE has flaws). Other than Tea Leoni.

Your manly features could be hugely endearing to an effeminate looking chap, and indeed you could spend many happy afternoons in each others clothes. Why, you could even visit the bank or estate agents to see how long the charade could last.

So in conclusion ugmo, never give up- you aren't that ugly, and I think you are taking the piss anyway which isn't fair on the genuine bog monsters out there

Answer 3

Just cuz you have manly features, it doesn't make you ugly. You just have to find a way to work w/ it. Hair and nails don't fix everything. Try learning how to do make-up (you can buy some really good books on that), wear outfits that distract from any manly features on your body. Like if you have broad shoulders, don't wear baggy shirts or shirts w/ pads. If you have thick legs, wear capris or dresses that go down to the knee. Just examples. I don't know what you look like. Don't hide who you are, just wear clothes that work w/ your body. All women have certain clothes that look super amazing on them. Any woman can look beautiful. Some just have to make more of an effort than others. Please don't feel bad about yourself though. We are all beautiful in our own way. I am sure that you will find a man who appreciates you for who you are and love what you look like. You just gotta show that you are confident. Work what you got, and I promise you will make some guys drool. Guys like confidence, sense of humor, and other personality traits. Make those appearant. You can wear clothes and make-up, etc. that show that. Maybe get some fashion magazines too. There are plenty of things you can do to boost your confidence and make yourself feel beautiful. It is most important that you feel beautiful, not so much what others think. Cheer up! You will find a good man out there. You will find your love. Just be patient and don't give up. Good luck, girlie! I hope I helped w/out offending you in any way.

Answer 4

Hey Pink. I'll be blunt. Anything less won't help. Firstly. If your ex lied, you'll only have to address your self image. but if your ex said what he said for a reason, then you have to address that. True, most men will rarely ask an ugly woman out. However, no matter what your physical appearance, you can be beautiful. There are two women in particular who I thought where extremely ugly when I first met them. Now I think they are two of the top 5 most beautiful and sexy women I have ever seen. It helped that they thought that they were beautiful and acted it. But most importantly, their beautiful personalities and demeanors far eclipsed their skin. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but the beholder notices personality much more than blemishes or makeup. If you are ugly, don't expect to knock the socks off of a guy the first moment you meat. But you can attract a guy that you meet regularly--such as coworkers or fellow college students. Here's what you must do: always dress well (get advice from someone who really knows), carry yourself well (don't slouch), find a flattering hairstyle and stick it (no ghetto fantastic), tone up your body if you are not already. If you have mid to large breasts, wear tops that show them off--guys just have a weakness. (Victoria's Secret can help makeup for what you lack). If your legs are your best features, then show them. Wear thongs or no underwear when you can (this is an internal mental thing--trust me on this). Sleep naked (another act that builds self confidence). It is 100% ok to be needy but don't ever act needy. Don't just act confident, be confident. Above all, remember this; If you believe you are beautiful and you act nicely, you WILL be attractive--which is different and better than beautiful. Again, your most noticable effect at first will be on guys that get to see you over time and get exposed to your charms. Eventually, you will go from zero to dude-magnet within seconds as you start realizing just how attractive you can be. Plus you may get lucky early and find a guy like me who'se not fixated on outward appearance.

Answer 5

Hmm...such an interesting question...i hope it's for real.
Here's my advice: first ALL women are beaty...that is God's gift dear....u get pedicures every week, which sounds pretty phony...because a woman will take care of her skin/makeup/hair first before the toes..Pedis r $$
Next you MUST grow your hair to at least shoulder length so that you can put it up which is automatically "fem". When u go out, never dress "frumpy" ever!! You say people ask u what's your sex??!! hmm...
To soften your features DO NOT EAT MEAT!! have u noticed male vegetarians r not very "masculine"?? I still don't b-leeve u but there is SOMEBODY out there that needs sincere advise, so this is more for that person.

Answer 6

OK this belongs in the Psychology portion of this forum.

Yes. Ugly women find love. BUT FIRST youhave to love yourself.

Then youtruly have to love others.

Then youhave to make yourself as attractive as possible - not only from the outside but from the inside. Dress appropriately - modestly but with a certain amount of style.

Then you have to develop your talents - mine is music - to the best of your abilities. Are you a particularly good librarian? Or perhaps you sew well or sing and dance well - develop these talents to the best of your abilities.

Spread yourself around - volunteer in church, at a hospital, shelve books in the library - join a club with activities you enjoy - gardening, lectures, museum tours. Engage friends in your quest - have them introduce you to appropriate gentlemen. Stress the gentleman part - you don't need a loser or a scoundrel.

Then you have to look at your prospects. Look for the same good traits you have in yourself - kindness, intelligence, happiness, great faith, These are traits that go beyond a pretty - or handsome face.

Be adventurous - if a not-terribly attractive man asks you out, suggest you meet for lunch. How bored can you be for an hour? He may turn out to be a real treasure!

Be patient. Good men are worth waiting for.

Answer 7

Listen, just cause you're not stereotypically good looking doesn't mean you are ugly. Keep your eyes and heart open and one day you might just find someone that thinks you are beautiful. Don't give up. Stop trying to make yourself beautiful and just be yourself....your beautiful self. It is true also that beauty shines from within and when it shines people can see your beauty on the outside too. It could be the way you smile or the shape of your eyes. Anything..that's why people of all shapes and sizes get married. Everyone is different and attracted to different things.

Answer 8

Yes you will find love, why not trying to dress more feminine, if ppl are questioning your sex it is time to get a makeover, tweeze your brows, wear some light make up (mascara and lipgloss) Put on a nice skirt and blouse with some cute shoes and act very confident, This will make you feel good as well and when you feel good other ppl pick up on it and you will be happier. A trendy new hair cut never hurts either ♥

Answer 9

I think that Beauty is merely a personal concept. I went to Google search to find something about this characteristic of yours, and look what I found ( there were much more, but the space here is limited. Take a look :

(This is a forum chat. Below is the URL , so you can check it.)


http://www.discovervancouver.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=135888&whichpage=2


luv em' Posted - 1/26/2007 9:36:02 AM
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See, masculine girls are the hottest creature on earth!!! Their face just looks more sexy with their bigger jaw.

Richard Posted - 1/26/2007 1:39:03 PM
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Girls who looks slightly masculine looks really sexy and very hot! Overall, they also look more mature.



Stacy Posted - 1/26/2007 11:19:52 PM
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I'm slightly masculine-looking too.

Hitman Posted - 1/27/2007 1:54:02 PM
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Well, I don't mind dating a girl who's slightly masculine looking. I think it gives them a more mature looking face.

As you see, they do not think like you do.
And if you want to please yourself , there are so fantastic
make-up products that every woman can be what she fancies. But I would go to a good professional and learn how to improve my features, enhance the eyes, make the nose shorter slimmer, you must know that make-up does miracles, in terms of changing someone's appearance.
Smile now, Marie, and see yourself under another light!
There is love waiting for you!

Answer 10

Two quotes come to mind here:
1) Beauty is in the eye of the beholder; and
2) There is someone out there for everyone.
Perhaps, instead of worrying about finding love, you should concentrate on building your self esteem. And the next time someone questions your gender, smile sweetly and reply with "Why do you want to know?"

Answer 11

Ok, you only look ugly on the outside if you feel ugly on the inside. So, stop beating yourself up...stop looking in the mirror, and start looking inside yourself. I know people who appear to be perfect 10's untill they open their mouths...they spout evil and lies and treat people badly and they become demon ugly. Most of them age badly too. So, just be the best you that you can be and love you and it will shine from inside of you. You will find more and more people attracted to your personality if and only if you are truly good on the inside. Take this from someone who knows, who lived it...it works...good luck and don't forget to love yourself!