If you can't get a guy out of your head and you think you like him, but then when you actually see him, you don't feel anything much for him, why would that happen?
2007-05-15 07:07:54 · 9 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your in love with your fantasy, not him or his reality. That's okay, but understand the difference.
2007-05-15 07:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what 2 tell because I'm going through the same thing... All I can tell you from personal experience is try 2 find something 2 think about it's working 4 me most of time... I think their actually any real feeling 4 this person like love or anything, who knows y u can't get him out of your head all I can suggest is seriously find something more interesting 2 think about.... hope it works 4 u too.... good luck =p
2007-05-15 14:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you think of him a lot basically because your not in front of him or you don't see him. Once he's in front of you, everything is okay. You do like the thought of him when he's not around. But once you see him... there's not really much of him to think about becaue he's... there. I hope I answered your question!
2007-05-15 14:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by omarigirl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason u end up not liking him is cause he is not ur type or you and him don't click the way you wanted to.. or you were looking for something different..
2007-05-15 14:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think often fantasizing about someone is often alot better than actually being with them. Then when we are actually with them, they fall short of our idealized version of them.
2007-05-15 14:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by wondermom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are only in love with him in your unconscious side of your brain, so when you see him you feel nothing for him in your conscious side. Well it's kinda complicated>>>
2007-05-15 14:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Roubi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like the idea of him only.
2007-05-15 14:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Taryn K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is quite strange...sorry, can't help ya with that one.
2007-05-15 14:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by lolliepop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk thats type weird...but you probably feel some type of way for him...but when u see him u probably think why am i interested in him
2007-05-15 14:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by whyt3gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋