I am about to get married, but I feel like I want to have sex with other girls, should I feel like this?

Answer 1

Then maybe you shouldn't be getting married... You are a great candidate for a divorce and you aren't even married. Congratulations, And I'm Sorry.

Answer 2

Your a guy, its completely normal and you will always feel that way even if your "wife to be" is a friggin super model. Its a mans nature to want to do this. Just don't act on it. I've been married for 4 years, and feel the exact same way. However, I've never cheated, so its ok! Best way to combat this is to make sure the 2 of you have a healthy sex life. I'm not talking about freaquency, but rather variety.
examples- daytime, nighttime, oral, anal, toys, dress up, roll playing, ect.......you get the picture.

Answer 3

You shouldn't feel like anything. You feel what you feel. What you DO is what matters.]
Aren't you glad you aren't married yet?
Hard to give advice with no info.
If you are 20 and this is your girlfriend from jr high, you might need to spread out before getting hitched.
If you are 30 and she is the 3rd or 4th major relationship and you know she is the ONE- you may be having "cold feet", like being afraid to buy a big house.
If you have known her 3 months, RUN!
If she has already had your child-both of you are stupid.
If you just want more sex (doesn't matter who with) or more time, then bail out and save yourself and her lots of pain.
If you are the bride, then bail out and get that lesbian thing out of your system.
How would you feel if SHE told YOU she wanted to have sex with more guys? Would you think she was nuts or nervous or not ready?
Are you ABOUT to get married-like walking down the aisle as we speak, or picking out the invitations or what.
Not much info...

Answer 4

It depends on the level of desire. It may just be cold feet. You know scared of the fact that this is the last person you will be with. On the other hand it may be a signal that you are not ready for this level of commitment and should not be getting married.

I felt the same way right before my wedding. I was like OMG there are so many people around how do I know that he is the one. But, 5 years later I could not imagine my life any other way. Only you know your true feelings and you should do what you think is right. Do not lead on your woman but don't break her heart. You need to do what is right for both of you.

Answer 5

For one you don't need to get married if you feel as though you want to have sex with other people because that means your not ready for commitment.

Answer 6

It sounds like you are not ready to get married. Do you know what marriage is?When you are ready to marry one person and are in love, you normally are not thinking of sex with any one but the one you love.

Answer 7

It is very common to feel this way you are having doubts about getting married. Just try to avoid sleeping with the other girls.

Answer 8

Are you crazy, at this point in your life you shouldn't be thinking about other women. Isn't she good enough. Just try and think about how you feel about the woman you're about to marry and what you guys have togather. I'm sure you wouldn't want to take about that because of one stupid mistake.

Answer 9

You definitely should NOT feel like this as you're about to get married. You should be ready not to have any other sorts of relationships with others. You are soon going to have to learn how to be truthful to your partner.

Answer 10

Forget marriage! If you feel like you need to keep sowing those wild oats, tell that little girl you want to marry and let her know you want to do this.