What do you think about a boy who knows i fancy him(he doesn´t want any girlfriend, but even so, he didn´t reject me) tells me that has a problem cause had one night stand with a girl who´s engaged to somebody and he surprises i feel bad at hear it.
I think is a very selfish and thoughtless action that he tells me "that kind of problems" knowing what i feel for him and even so expects it doesn´t hurt me.
Please no silly answers , just serious.
2007-05-15 06:46:15 · 11 answers · asked by CREATIVA 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you are serious and he is not
2007-05-15 06:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by troy m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want a relationship right now.. He probably knows that you like him but he's not ready for any commitment as of now... Telling you about the one night stand is just a macho thing... Guys are guys... It just makes them feel better that they had this girl and this girl and so on... Back up a bit and see what his next move would be, okay?!
2007-05-23 12:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by ~*FIFI*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesn't mean you any good and you should move on to better, because in the long run he's gonna leave you for someone else, please don't keep your hopes up too much cause you might be hurt even more than you are now. Darling wise up; in the first place when this guy had told you that he didn't want any girlfriend you should at least fight your feelings. He's not being selfish he's being himself, honest and rude; and he's not for you he's a catastrophe, believe it or not. Please think about yourself first, then others who doesn't mean you any good.
2007-05-19 21:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by sam-sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you bothered with a guy who is quite happy to have a one night stand with anybody, engaged or not? Try looking for a guy who is happy with just one girl ie you!
2007-05-15 13:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by sadieladie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart- Sometimes we have to put OUR feelings aside. you are not dating him right now and He has a problem with something. Respect the fact that he is opening up and sharing his problems with you! Dont allow selfishness or jealousy destroy your friendship with him. If you and him can not be friends, You definatley can not be lovers.
2007-05-15 13:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by stayc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me girl look at it this way if he can have a one night stand with that girl whats stopping him doing it to you move on that's what i say
2007-05-23 07:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by daz4s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was trying to tell you he's not interested and you shouldn't be interested in him. He told you that for a reason. Listen to him and look elsewhere for a boyfriend.
2007-05-15 13:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply he doesn't care what you feel about him. Forget him and look for a decent guy who will give you all that you ask for and more.
2007-05-23 07:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's too self centered don't bother with him if he treats you like that. Some guys just can't put their egos aside even for a second.Don't let him mess with your head like that
2007-05-15 13:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by nadia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont bother with him get someone else
2007-05-23 08:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by lilian c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋