Just now, I saw my prom date and the last girl I liked/fell in love with sitting at a table of about 6-8 people together. I have this really sick feeling inside that the last girl I liked must have said something that made my prom date change her mind about me. She didn't act towards me the way she normally does and like she did with me at the prom and yesterday (explained further in the link under additional details). I'm really afraid, I wanted this girl to like me and I think she does, but now the last girl I liked that didn't like me back may have bad-mouthed me to the girl I like now. The girl I like now talks to me even though bad things she said she knows about go around about me. With her and the last girl sitting together, that might all change.
2007-05-15 06:43:12 · 5 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question is titled "Please answer this question, I'm not sure if this girl likes me or not.?"
The link is
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AunHUsLfxd66BL127qPaJ4Hsy6IX?qid=20070514202913AAqxg85
2007-05-15 06:44:02 · update #1
I just remembered that even though the last girl I liked treated me bad (a past question I asked here but I won't post the link unless requested), I started seeing signs that she could miss me. She probably did sabotage me with my new prospect that probably liked me and probably doesn't like me anymore.
2007-05-15 06:47:12 · update #2
To clarify: my chances with the girl for a relationship.
2007-05-15 06:47:56 · update #3
Most of the things that go around about me aren't true, and she said she believes me unlike the last girl I liked who would try to get me to admit whatever-it-was was true.
2007-05-15 06:55:31 · update #4
Do I need to ask her what that girl said, and explain what really happened if she said anything?
2007-05-15 06:57:34 · update #5
I didn't bring up that I saw her sit with the girl I used to like, I just asked her what was up and she said she had an attitude for that day. It was just her up and down day. Things is cool now.
:)
2007-05-15 16:28:48 · update #6
alright.. well first of all i have a question for you.. is this new girl and the old girl Friends at all? or was one of them not even in the same group, so that it's obvious they just came over to Say Something..? were they looking at you when you saw them? because if they were looking at you, they might have been talking about you.. but there is also a big doubt they even were talking about you, and that you are worrying a little too much. My guess is, this new girl was Really starting to like you, and so her depth of how strong her feelings were getting were scaring her just a little.. so that she wanted to know more about you and how you are with girls, your past, so that she wanted to make sure she wasn't just setting herself up for this "wonderful guy on paper" so she wouldn't get hurt. so she May have went to this girl, if she knew that you had a past with her.. My suggestion is that you need to start being more Real with this new girl.. open up a Little bit more, and show your true feelings, not Just the flirty flirty type.. (although that's always good Too) but so that you show her exactly how you are, so she can formulate her Own opinions about you.. and not have to go to other people. you need to give her a strong sense of who you are and all the wonderful things you have to offer.. keep getting to know her and asking her out. and she will take you how she does... it's HER CHOICE in the end.. no matter What ANYONE may Tell her about you... Everyone gossips.. but in the end, if you Really like someone, you don't let that stop you. and No, don't talk to her and question her on this.. then you are being overly-needy and worrying too much.. making something a big deal that's not. if you go to her to try to "explain" things.. then she will just think that That shows you are trying to cover up some Guilt... and that you DO have something to hide. that is never good.. when the issue is nothing big, and you don't even know if there IS an issue. From reading a few of your posts about her.. i definitely think that she likes you. there isn't really a question about that.. she's really starting to fall for you. and who cares 'what type of guy' she had in her past... that obviously didn't work for her, and i'm sure she can recognize a good guy when she sees one (which is You).. so you need to focus on the Present.. not all these what if's and things from the past.. what matters is Now, and if you get caught in worrying or reflecting back, then you will miss the good thing you DO have. relax. please try to not worry so much.. if things are meant to happen, then they Will. don't worry about your ex and start to get bitter and jealousy.. not everyone is "out to get you" ....you didn't do anything wrong.. and if someone truly likes you for you then THEY will realize that too. People see you for who THEY want to see you.. no matter what. and however they do, that is their choice. if this new girl is going to judge you and not make things on her own opinions and find out if she likes you for herself (which i think she Is doing, since she hasn't stopped talking to you or anything and still is showing she is interested).. and i'm glad she doesn't make assumptions toward you like your last girl you liked... this new one sounds like she is good for you. and you sound actually really happy for the first time in a while. so keep that smile on your face, and erase those worry lines in your forehead! everything will be fine and work out in the end!! :) have a good day!!
2007-05-15 10:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's admitted that she knows bad things about you, but she still hangs out with you. Your chances are actually pretty good.
Be honest with her - explain to her your reasons for whatever it was you may have done. Don't bad-mouth or insult the other girl, it only makes you look bad
2007-05-15 13:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Chances for what? Your question is seriously muddled. I have two questions: What did you do to the first gf to get her so pissed off? Second question, why does it matter? What are you looking for here? If a girl isn't nice to you and you don't want to be nice to her, then leave and find someone who is better.
2007-05-15 13:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
who cares?? is your ex here right now? be the good person you know you are and any girl worth being with, will see you for you and wont care what some dumb girl said!
2007-05-15 13:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by orange blossom honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't worry about it. Start collecting DVD's, go to a Star Trek convention and gain 80 pounds. Really...it'll get better.
2007-05-15 13:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by svengoolieweb 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋