I have a friend in my life that i know has another woman.He is more close to her then me because he has known her longer.But i can tell he does not want to hurt my feelings if I can't deal with this.he tries to be with her without me knowing unless i push the issue.She knows me but thinks i am just a friend.When i want to spend time with him he will make up an excuse as to why he can't or will tell me that he will call me later and never does and i know its because she is over his house.But the majority of the time he will come to my place if i ask him. Last night was one of those nights he did not call back. But in the back of my mind I still want to spend time with him.& he actually told me he would spend the rest of the week with me but last night was going to be hard. I have a tendacy of holding on to no good men as long as i know, until i cant take it anymore. & new ones are always married or have the same drama. Is it better to have a partime love then no love at all?
2007-05-15 06:38:39 · 11 answers · asked by My two cents 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LET HIM GO GIRL! Any man that's really in love with you wouldn't even think of being with someone else. Open your eyes girlfriend! Your the fallback girl. When things ain't going right on the other end, he comes to you. Don't let him play you.
You should check out the movie "The Holiday" with Kate Winslet and Cameron Diaz. Then, you decide how you think things should go between you and him.
And you have the quotation wrong. "It's better to love and lost than to have not loved at all."
You never want a piece of someone. You want to love them wholeheartedly and be loved by them wholeheartedly. Every time you commit to one of his whims, you are giving all of yourself. Everytime you do something to make him happy, you are giving all of yourself. What has he done for you? other than make you cry, doubt your self, feel insecure, and post this question on Yahoo.
I pray you can see the errors of this relationship. Move on and be happy. If he really wants you, he will follow and he will let her go. Otherwise, tell him good riddance and bad rubbish.
2007-05-15 06:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by fsuforlife21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is better to be alone. Why would you want anyone to be with you only part time? You are disrespecting yourself by staying in these kind of relationships. My advise: End this affair and be alone for a while. Determine why you put up with this kind of treatment. Be strong and be confident and respect yourself! After you've done some work on yourself then get back out there and wait for a man who will BOTH love and respect you.
2007-05-15 06:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular you have been abused, and you have each precise to tell somebody and have this lifted off your shoulders. the undeniable fact which you're feeling like it is your fault screams you have been abused, he made you experience in charge as a toddler for even thinking approximately telling somebody. He manipulated you into letting him abuse you so so which you could work out your cousin. i actually understand the place you're coming from, you ought to know it substitute into abuse, not your fault, and study from it so it never happens to any little female or boy on your lifestyles. with the aid of that I mean consistently be watchful for those harmless teenagers and in case you spot something not precise..do something. commence with the aid of beginning up a splash at a time, or to a pal or sibling, then it ought to furnish you the braveness to tell your mothers and dads and with a bit of luck loose your self from the wear and tear. solid success hun, and perhaps speaking on right here substitute into the 1st step!
2016-11-23 14:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not, curious. Loving someone with your whole heart and soul is the only way to go. The rest is just a shadow.
2007-05-15 06:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of fish in the sea, keep fishing. A three way relation can work, but it is a lot of work and rarely worth the effort.
2007-05-15 06:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that boy is just not interested in u. forget about himlove is the greatest feeling and your true love will come but if that boy spends more time with her than u and disses u 4 her,may mean he is interested in her or is with her.forget about jerks like that and wait LOVE DOES EXSIT and soon your true love will come and your gonna be glad you listen to me.
2007-05-15 06:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy_Mamita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A piece of someone? Like what, his left foot? He's not into you, he has a girlfriend, and it sounds like he's lying to his girlfriend and sneaking around- not cool. Let it go. Stop clinging to no good men- that's not healthy.
2007-05-15 06:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree that
A piece of azz is better than nothing at all...especially if I get to slap it a few times while i ride it
M
2007-05-15 06:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
part-time love is all i've got too, and it's working for me.
2007-05-15 06:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jaycie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH!
YEAH, I'D LIKE A PEICE OF AS$ RIGHT NOW TOO
2007-05-15 06:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by puss_n_jesus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋