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I have a question for the ladies about their perspective on something. There is this girl that I like who lives in my complex. I see her, we speak to one another like 2 times thats all. She is leaving to go to work when I'm coming in from work. Also Im wondering if she has a bf or is dating anyone bc I would like to know b4 asking her bc i dont want to make a fool out of myself. She leaves to go out when she gets in thats when im coming back from running. I have never seen her bring a guy or bf back to the complex. Does this mean she is single? What is the best way i should go about talking to her or what should i say to her the next time i see her? I really do like her i feel that she is the most attractive girl. Thanks Ladies,

2007-05-15 06:37:26 · 9 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

Whenever you see her bump into her or something. Just suck it up and say "Hi". Introduce yourself like a gentleman. Say you've seen her around the complex and you just wanted to say hi. You never know, she may have noticed you just as much as you notice her. Strike up a conversation, but make sure she isn't busy first, cuz you don't want to annoy her. It sounds like you both have a busy life so this could be hard. I understand your dilemma. If the conversation goes well, ask her what her weekend plans are and see if she would like to go to dinner or something. Just be polite and not too forward. Be confident too. You would be surprised what happens when you just do something you normally wouldn't do or that seems too hard. Just go for it! Good luck! : )

2007-05-15 06:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She sounds like she works late. The next time you see her talk to her. Make a joke about always seeing her leave so late. Try to get to know her...if you like her you have got to speak with her or its going to go no where. If you never see her bring a guy over that is good news. Poke around when talking to her find out if she has a boyfriend...

2007-05-15 13:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0 0

Well, I dunno about finding out if she has a boyfriend or not, but the next time you run into her, just try to strike up a conversation. Ask her how work's going, where she works if you don't know all ready. Just chit-chat with her some, and she may open up. Anyways, sorry if this is not much help, but the only thing I can really think of is to just talk to her some, ask how things are going and all of that.

2007-05-15 13:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mizuki 2 · 0 0

Okay Just ask her how she's doin, be like;
'' oH hi how are you doin today? you look nice"
she'll be like '' oh thanks'' and then say
'' you know were are always walking past each other
and not really saying much, so if you not doin anything or seeing anyone how about one day we just hang out?''

And just take it from there it'll work trust me..

2007-05-15 13:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Parachutes 4 · 0 0

Woman like straight forward men, that don't mind taking a risk for fear of rejection.

so...I'd say to her....

Are you single...because I would really like to take you out....What do you think?

While asking, act confident, don't stand too close but look at her right in the eyes.

It's your best chance at success, believe me (o;

2007-05-15 13:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 0 0

just ask her out for lunch, then it's not a "date" but you can talk more than a five second conversation when running out

2007-05-15 13:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

when you see her, after you say hi start a converstation with her (make sure she doesnt look busy). then ask in a not so obvious way

2007-05-15 13:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

the best way to do it is next time you see you just start up a lil convo and then be like so wut are you doin this weekend? if she has a bf....you will find out from that.

2007-05-15 13:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

leave her love notes on her door. then after you get her all buttered up leave her a note with you appt # on it and say " if you are interested lets talk." tell her how beautiful she is!!!!!

2007-05-15 13:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by sister from another mister 2 · 0 0

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