Once there was a function in my college. Everyone said that I was looking beautiful (Including him). But as I was leaving he told me to never were that dress again, because he didn’t want anyone else to watch me in that dress.
He says he will kill any other boy who would come near me. He is in a real hurry to marry me, he says he wants to marry me in 2010, I told him that my parents may not allow that. Then he said the he would kill my parents if that happens.
Now I really want to break up with him but I can’t, one we had a fight and I was sure that we would break up but one day he just grabbed me (as I was alone) and kissed me by force. Then he said sorry (not about the kiss but about the fight) he was really nice to me for two days but after that it was all the same.
Now I learned that he is some kind of gangster, and I am afraid that he may kill or rape me I break up with him.
I have heard these kinds of men are mentally ill. Is my bf one of them? How do I break up?
2007-05-15 06:36:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-05-15 06:41:25 · update #1
Restraining order.
Glock 9.
Federal Witness Protection Program.
2007-05-15 06:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK - You need to start talking - to everyone and anyone about what he is doing to you!!! Go to your parents and ask them for help! Go to a guidance councelor at school! Call the police! Call a battered women's shelter! Don't stop calling and talking until someone helps you!! You need to make as many people as possible aware of what this guy is doing to you! The more people that know the more protection you will have.
End ALL contact with him!!!!! Do not speak to him, do not answer his phone calls, avoid him at all costs. If you make the decision to talk to him, NEVER, NEVER, be alone with him!!!
This guy is screwed up! Chances are he is a big P U S S Y!! He beats on women because that is the only thing that makes him feel powerful! Find some good friends!! 6' 4", 280 lbs men would be good!!! Have them get in his face and give him a "gentle warning" to stay away from you!!!
You have to take some action RIGHT NOW!!!!! Do whatever you have to do to protect yourself, but please make people aware of what you are going through!! You have NOTHING to be ashamed of - it isn't your fault!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-15 06:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure does sound like trouble. This guy is very possessive and he is trouble if he is a gangster or not. He has threatened to kill people, WOW. I would talk to a counselor at the college and possibly even fill out a police report stating that he has made these threats and if you can get a restraining order then tell him to leave you alone. Good luck honey.
2007-05-15 06:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by misbotta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a situation where you need to get the law involved. If you are in fear of your life or your loved ones lives, you have the right to obtain a restraining order and at least that is the first step. reasoning with him will not work as he is obviously used to getting what he wants by using force and fear.
talk to a priest, and then follow the laws and get away from him before more than your life is in jeopardy, but your mental state.
2007-05-15 06:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
alright seriously get away from him tell your parents and just stay away people like him will always apoligize and never really mean it dont belive him or trust him go to your dad or mom tell them your afraid and call the cops if you want to break up with him have some friends go with you. they can stand off to the side so you can do it in private but make sure your still in sight and reachable distance so that way your safe
just be careful sugar plum im a guy were dangerous its true alls we want is sex drugs alchohal and rock n roll
2007-05-15 06:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he's got major mental issues and needs professional, institutional help. You're in danger, and not in a good way. Quietly, check out online resources for battered women and how to get out of violent relationships - he's not extremely violent now, but he's getting there fast.
By the way, when a guy is out with his girl and she's looking amazing - he should be upset at any guy who DOESN'T dig you!
2007-05-15 06:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He certainly sounds like an abuser. I'd call a women's shelter for advice. It is important for you to get away from him though. Can you take a break from school and go see someone he doesn't know anything about? A distant relative? I'll pray for your courage and safety as you go through this.
2007-05-15 06:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Raja_Nala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl yes! get out of that situation AND FAST!!! there are so many cases like yours on tv man where the man would kill his wife/girlfriend before she trys to leave but you cant stay in that situation. you need to get a restraining order against him for you and your parents and let your parents know whats going on. i have seen plenty of situatuons where this wont end good if you stay
2007-05-15 06:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie Pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still live at home ..talk to your parents if not call the police..NOT 911 and see about getting a personal pertection order orppo against him..this is not always safe..i had a friend who had one and she was still killed in her home by him..moving out is another good way to get away ..if you are old enough..good luck and be safe
2007-05-15 06:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go real quick, leave what you are doing right now and rent the movie "Sleeping with the Enemy"
I hope this helps!
2007-05-15 06:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋