My ex-boyfriend (long-distance) is still in love with me and calls/texts me all the time. Recently I met a new guy, and my ex is suspcious because I haven't been picking up his calls or responding to his texts anymore. He has been asking me if I've been seeing someone new, and I've lied about it and said no. Should I tell him the truth? Maybe it'll get him off my back if I do.
2007-05-15 05:49:42 · 17 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off you shouldent be talking to your ex anymore... that should be over and done with long before you start seeing someone new. Secondly yes you should tell him unless you plan on draggin him allong just for a back up boyfriend or something like that...? Either way it is very unfair for your ex to be sitting there thinking you still have feelings for him and that he has some kind of chance while your out there doing god knows what with another guy.
Make up your mind about who you want to be with and tell him !
Dont tell lies.. they will come back and bite you in the ***
2007-05-15 05:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by KT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he is an ex? If you don't want to be in a relationship with the ex then you really need to cut the ties. And if you really like this new guy do him a favor and have respect for him and treat him as if you would like to be treated. Tell the ex that you can't accept calls or texts because you are involved. And let sleeping dogs lie.
2007-05-15 05:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by K M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 00:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your ex the truth! He is your ex for a reason. Its ok for him to still be in your life, but you're not together anymore. Tell him you're hanging out with a new friend and you're having fun together. Your ex seems really clingy, and you don't need that.
2007-05-15 05:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.....you're still talking to your ex and you're not telling him about your new guy. Do YOU still have feelings for HIM? If not, be compassionate and tell your ex about the new guy. It seems like you're stringing him along. Tell him, so he can start to get over you. It's cruel to let him continue this way. I'm sorry, I don't mean for that to be so harsh.
2007-05-15 05:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Raja_Nala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really its got nothing to do with him, you have moved on and are not dwelling in the past even if you do still like him but as a friend. Dont push him away just be friends, but also dont let him ruin your new relationship.
2007-05-15 05:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,dont tell him,all thats gonna accomplish is breaking his heart.If you tell him then it looks like your trying to rub it in his face.So the next time he calls just tell him that you think that yall need some time apart,that your trying to move on.I'm sure he'll understand,and if he dont then hes not a real man.
2007-05-15 05:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel Hillhouse`s Girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason he's your ex. he really shouldn't be calling you and texting you all the time. why would you lie about seeing anyone? if he truly cares about you, he'd want you to be happy with a new person.
2007-05-15 05:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by emma-me 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, better yet if you tell him he will get off your back and out of your hair. I would tell him and brake it off. For More Info Hit Me Up At wildenout2007@yahoo.com (My Personal E-Mail Address)
2007-05-15 06:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him now. It will help him get over you because he will realise you to are over and i'm not sure your new BF would be happy to hear you denying him to your Ex
2007-05-15 05:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋