Hi everyone,
I've barked on this course with a year abroad and because of that I had to leave my family behind.
Throughout the whole year I spent feeling that it wasn't right, everytime I went home I didn't want to come back, several times I just wanted to quit the course and come home and do something that is in my soul.
I couldn't leave on some occasions due to a part time job I had in the town where I study. I have quit my job and I went home and now my relationship with my parents has changed it's colder. My mum has always encouraged me to do it but I felt I didn't want to as it's not in my heart. I feel like I've lost the best thing I ever had.
I feel like quiting and sowing things back with my family.
I feel sick studying here and I don't think it's within my values.
Once you've lost integrity is it still possible to get it back. All I feel is guilt and I just don't know what to do.
I'm thinking of working for the pub I used to work for.
What is your opinion?
2007-05-15 05:41:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I just feel that greed unravels alot, I used to be a very deep person and now that's gone.
2007-05-15 06:18:23 · update #1
the past 5 yrs have been the yrs of Armageddon.. it is a war in the spirit world... between mother nature and religion and those who build religions... we are part spirit.... we are emotional, mental, physical and spiritual beings... this is what a human is.. and those who are spiritually sensitive would have been affected or imbalanced .... what you are experiencing amounts to a depression in the human understanding... how to get it back is the question... be yourself again... make choices that encourages that... surround yourself with people who encourage that... the soul is made up of the spiritual and emotional side of our being... the mind seeks to balance the soul and body (physical needs) put your physical needs before the spiritual one... this can help you re-balance and be yourself again... the mental is where we make choices.. I have a few things written on my 360 blog about depression, temper tantrums and emotional healing if you want to check it out.. we control our own healing but getting advice from one another helps us to find our way back.
2007-05-15 05:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's not much time left, then finish the course this year, even if you now know it wasn't the right step for you. It is a valuable experience because you've known yourself better through this.
You haven't lost your integrity, just because you did something you realize now did not suit you and just because you're not stepping out of it too quickly. On the contrary, too much haste won't help. Take your time to make plans, and take it easy -- it happens we are 'stuck' with activity we do not appreciate very much, just as long as you take it calmly, evaluate the situation, and decide about the next few steps, nothing very bad can happen.
2007-05-15 05:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does integrity have anything to do with you losing your relationship with your parents.
It happens when we leave home and not share things with them anymore tho, it happens because were all human and we feel warmer to those we share things with.
I believe you havent lost your integrity unless youve lost your self-respect, and I dont think taking a course somewhere is going to make you lose that.
Youll be fine when you go back home and put up a good heart warming display of emotions me thinks.
Buy them gifts too ^^ Theyll love that.
Good luck!
2007-05-15 05:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Antares 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can get your integrity back. It's simply a matter of deciding that from now on, you're going to live a life of integrity. You cannot change the things you've done in the past, so if you've done wrong, repent of it and move on.
2007-05-15 05:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Deof Movestofca 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've been away from home. That tends to make people a bit different. In addition, young people often develop a certain distance from their parents as they approach the age of "leaving the nest."
You're growing up, and as you do, you leave some of the certainty of youth behind.
You'll be fine, I promise.
2007-05-15 05:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you definitely deserve your virginity back...if you succeed, let me know how you did it.
oh wait...integrity? sorry...integrity is a funny thing. the only thing that matters is if you are happy with the decisions you make and can live with them. you have to live in your own skin....nobody else does. do what you think is right and good for you, and if anyone else has a problem with that...that's just it THEIR PROBLEM
2007-05-15 05:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by elfkin, attention whore 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're growing up, and changing. This happens. I also think that perhaps you're feeling homesick. But whatever you do, you need to move forward, not backwards.
2007-05-15 05:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by Julia Sugarbaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get right with God and he will help you all the way.
2007-05-15 05:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by littlecwoman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get back to the roots of your raising
2007-05-20 19:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by tennessee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live out your life, you've got one - use it.
2007-05-15 05:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by waldemaryam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋