.....that they won't have to put up with from less attractive women?
I see attractive women needing to have money and entertainment more, with almost complete reliability; and if a guy can't provide that, he's going to have his heart broken and/or be nagged all the time. Are there other things that guys need to be aware of when trying for attractive women, like bouncing from guy to guy looking for prince charming?
2007-05-15 05:33:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Attractive people seem to be less mature overall, because everyone is afraid to stand up to them and tell them the truth about how badly they are acting. She might be a little shocked if you have enough of a spine to stand up for yourself when she is treating you badly.
Attractive people get approached all of the time, so they tend to take attention for granted. However, they are used to being the center of attention, so they get annoyed when they are ignored, and they feel like they have to get your attention back if you ignore them (A catch-22 -- if you pay attention to her, she loses interest, if you ignore her, she goes nuts trying to get your attention back).
2007-05-15 05:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the there's a big difference in desirability between the two, then the more desirable will one will get asked all the time why they are with "the loser" by friends, family, etc. Notice I said desirability, not attractiveness, if one is beautiful but crazy or poor and the other is average-looking but stable or well-to-do then people understand that everyone brings different qualities to the table in a relationship. Sometimes, if people are really good looking, then they feel like they can slack in other areas of their life. I've done that.
Bouncing from guy to guy has more to do with lack of confidence and inability to communicate.
Last thought: She should be attractive WITHOUT makeup and hair done. People who put a lot of effort into their appearance are often very shallow or not too bright or have something to prove and, besides, in a relationship, your going to see them first thing in the morning anyways, so you don't want someone who is scary without their makeup.
2007-05-15 05:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Toby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you honestly believe attractive women need more money and entertainment than less attractive women, well you are't going to make it with an attractive women. You can be dirt poor and still date 9's and 10's.
To answer your question, you don't put up with anything that is second class behavior. If you do, you are going to get walked on.
2007-05-15 05:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
some can be high maintenance financially and or emotionally and what is wrong with looking for mr right the prince charming???
this is what helped me in this matter=when you find the one that is worth your lives together give her a diamond ring and marry her first and get your priorities of honor together first.
learning to have my soul fulfilled in prince of peace =Isaiah 9:6 to be born the Son and almighty God, the prince of peace. life is a natural happening-
Beauty is vain, but a woman that reverences the Lord she shall be praised. Proverbs 31
first get a relationship with God then let him direct your life-and when your in love -she will be the most beautiful girl in the world -because you will see her through Jesus eyes=
what helped me most is believing in truth-Jesus says I am the way the truth and the life, no one cometh unto heaven but by me, repent of your sins -even one lie and let me into your heart to be your friend and help you. John 14:6, John 3 and Revelation 3:19&20 where Jesus also says he unconditionally loves us, "I love you, and knock on your heart door to come in deliver from sins (even one lie) and be your friend, if you repent and ask me in."
have a great day i pray, David
2007-05-15 05:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, I am high maintenance. I spend a lot of money on clothes, accessories, town home, decorating, etc.
But... I PAY !!
I don't need a ride from any guy. I certainly don't bounce from guy to guy, looking for hearts to break .
2007-05-15 05:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perfect 10s can be found at every bar in the world at 2am EVERY DAY! It's waking up next to someone else that I can't figure out!lol!! Everyone has a different idea of beauty.
2007-05-15 05:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by pappyld04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your questions/concerns tell the world that you still have a long way to go before you are mature enough to enter into a meaningful relationship with a female.
Is your mother attractive? If so, does your father share your concerns about his wife?
It's back to the Nursery Room for you. Play with your toys, coloring books, and, maybe, try Church!
2007-05-15 05:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's not true ... I love rolling around in the dirt and playing sports ... a simple trip to the beach or hiking in the mountains is plenty for me ... those are called High Maintenance girls ... and you don't have to be pretty to be called one of those ... lol ... they're materialistic and money hungry ... find somebody you have fun with and you'll be just fine ... !
2007-05-15 05:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you date an attractive woman you will have to put up with other guys looking at her and flirting with her all the time. That was a big problem for my husband and I when we first started dating. It made him feel very, very jealous and he used to get mad at me.
2007-05-15 05:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by true blue 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋