My gf is aganst oral, probably afraid of it. Were both virgens but I am wondering if she'll ever change her mind and if i shuld do something about it or let it be.
2007-05-15 05:21:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont try to force her to do it, some girls just dont like it/ think its gross. she will do it if she wants. if you keep brining it up, or asking her to do it, she may get annoyed and leave. just dont force the issue, and ask her about it (at an appropriate time) so that you can better understand how she feels about it.
2007-05-15 05:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is afraid of it because of the stories she's heard from her friends (getting unexpected facial masks), and possibly she's seen the huge porn stars shoot their gallon-gobs all over the place, and the women chugging and gagging.
Don't make a big thing of it. Disguss it openly and promise her you will not "let go" in her mouth. If you do, chance are you'll have a lap full of vomit and never get it again.
Tell her that when your close to the final gusher (actually about 10 seconds before to avoid PC), you will tap her on the shoulder as a warning to finish it off by hand and point it away from her. If you value her, don't paint her.
When the oral is reversed (you doing it to her), it's a no-holds bar feeding freezee. You devour until she has at least 3 orgasms and don't stop until she has at least one. Make the first experiences memorable and they only get better. Screw it up and it's a losing battle.
2007-05-17 06:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was never into the idea of it, but i am starting to warm up to oral... i would love to give my bf a bj, but i'm not too excited about him giving me oral... she may come around, she may not. is she open to anything? maybe she is just insecure about down there... who knows! just talk to her about it, don't make her feel like you are forcing her to do anything though. I wouldn't try and change her mind... if it's going to change, it'll do so on it's own. I know that's what happened in my case. See, I love my boyfriend very much, and I want to do anything for him that will give him pleasure and make him happy. If that means oral, than so be it. Just don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to do. She'll come around...
2007-05-15 05:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the advice of others. You definately don't want to try to force her to do something she doesn't want to do. However, I think you can move that decision along a little faster by being playful, fun and making a game out of it. Don't go straight for the bj. Instead, start with other areas of the body. Beginning with non-sexual areas where she will feel comfortable. Such as licking honey off your finger, elbow, ear lobe or neck. Take turns and make it fun. You may want to do this several times without going for the bj and work your way down.
Good Luck
2007-05-15 06:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I highly doubt she will be mad about that. Make it seem like a fun thing? Say you want to remember the feelings of all the things you two first starting doing before sex. Make it into a game, switch it up. You then her, vice versa. I'm sure she won't be mad.
2016-05-18 21:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by tawanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will change her mind you just have to wit until she is ready to do it. Dont force her into doing it becuase believe me it puts girls of more. As your both still virgins she may think if she does that then you may not want to still be with her. She is just pacing herself for when it does happen.
2007-05-15 05:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be afraid not her. She could bite it or accidentally scrap her teeth on it. Or have a cold sore in her mouth and suddenly you have herpes. Then you you have sex she will get it too. I've known all three to have happened to friends I know. The herpes one is the worst.
2007-05-15 05:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go down on her sometime.If she is afraid tell her if after 3 min she wants to quit you will.If not continue until she is done.Then when next time she ask you to do her say wanna try the same for me.
2007-05-15 05:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by terry v 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to her and give her time. Maybe you should both learn together. She should teach you how to please her orally and then you can show her. Take your time.
Whatever you do don't push it.
2007-05-15 05:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by tutis000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
give her oral... practice it... if ur good at it, she will sucks urs like lollipop... ofcoursee first time is scary... but once she has orgasm, she cant stop. for girls, they prefer oral then intercourse. girls can get orgasm much easier thru oral.
2007-05-15 05:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋