okay, so i have been sort of dating this guy for like 2 months now... only neither of us has put a name or title to what it is that we are doing.
we have done all sorts of stuff together... concerts, dinner, ice cream, dancing, all of htat sort of stuff.. even hearding cattle, and brushing horses... (we live on a farm... it is like 30 acres, and has 2 houses on it. my family lives in one, his family in the other).
we are saving sex for marriage... both of us, so that has not happened.....
but what are we? what would you concider this to be? he comes over to my house like every day, or everyother day. in the past 7 days, i have seen him 5. we are really close.... but i dont know what we are? any help?
2007-05-15 04:49:11 · 6 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Country folks used to call that "Keeping Company."
Today it is more commonly called "Dating."
I applaud both of you!
2007-05-15 05:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From here where I live, we call that the "mutual understanding" stage. Or "M-U" for short. Kinda corny, I know. Anyway...
I admire you both for your friendship and the fact that you are willing to wait and save sex for marriage.
Your deep friendship is a real great foundation. Treasure and cherish it. It will do you good and will lead you both, and get you through, all through life.
Cheers and all the best.
2007-05-15 11:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ding 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call it just that...dating. You are dating this man. Until one of you specifies that it is exclusive I wouldn't assume. If you're not sure, you could ask him. That does open you up for disappointment should he not want anything more yet. It hasn't been that long yet so I would just wait and continue dating him. Sounds like you are having a lot of fun and building a solid relationship. Relax and enjoy it!
2007-05-15 11:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are friends, that's it. If you think some legal status is more important than sex, then there is no intimacy. At least your desire to have sex with each other is less than the desire to get a piece of legal paper...
2007-05-15 11:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by DeadmanWalks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him where he thinks this relationship is going? Let him answer the qustion. (he has the best answer)
2007-05-15 11:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by jocho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur relationship can be named v beautifully as " ehsaas "
means feeling..... its a rel of feeling rit?????
2007-05-16 10:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋