im currently in a relationship and the thing is that he is not a virgin and i am. does it really matter? i told him that i dont mind the fact that he's not a virgin but i think i do...is that wrong? should i tell him or just let it go cuz i kno it was his past? im 18 and he's 27.
2007-05-15 04:43:23 · 15 answers · asked by HelpMePlease 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All he is going to do is take your virginity and dump you! ARE YOU GOING TO ALLOW THIS TO HAPPEN??? You are kidding yourself if you think anything else! If it matter to you, then do something about it!!!
2007-05-15 04:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it really matters. I guess I would mind too, but does it Really get in the way of the relationship? I mean, he is 27 and it would be even worse if he was a virgin and then you'd freak out about what was wrong with him.
I mean we're girls. We have the tendency of worrying.
If you don't care, it won't matter.
So just let go of it and you'll be just fine.
2007-05-15 04:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Batgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a big age difference at 18. Not many guys are virgins by 27. If they were, it would be time to worry, because they would be religious nuts or gay.
It is much better to have your first experience with someone experienced. At least someone knows what they are doing.
2007-05-15 04:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with a 9 year age difference, you should not be surprised by the fact that he is not a virgin. the real question here...... is are you still a virgin because you just havnt found someone that you are that comfortable with, or have you made the decision to save sex for marriage? if you have decided to save it, then you might be hurt, that if you two do get married, that it will not be as fulfilling for him, as it is for you.
just ask yourself if you are willing to give something that big up, before you are married... and then see where you stand.
good luck
2007-05-15 04:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by smcopeland16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should not really matter as long as you are up front about your feelings.Both of you.If you start feeling that there is only 1 thing he is after he probably is.If he is with you without sex for an extented period and constant pressure to have sex there maybe a good relationship in the works.Good Luck
2007-05-15 04:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by terry v 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy cares that your a virgin then you don't deserve him hun!!! Tell just tell him that it bothers you a little bit im sure he wont mind plus he's 27 of course hes done it. Just tell him that your waiting for that special someone!!! Best of luck to ya
2007-05-15 04:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Hailey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it matters to you, then yes it does matter. You should talk to him about it. Maybe he can say something to put your mind at ease. I think losing your virginity is a big deal.
2007-05-15 04:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if YOU have a problem with it, then YES it matters! And a boy of 27... all he's thinking about is sex right now... you can't change this about him, so if you can't accept it, then move on, and NO there is nothing wrong with that! Why compromise your morals???
2007-05-15 04:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by o b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and yes. Make sure he is not trying to take advantage of you and make sure he does not force you into doing anything you do not want to do. That age difference can be trouble too so just be careful. But other than that if you are happy with him than stay with him.
2007-05-15 04:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u do tan just leave him
if u dont tan its alright
just think twice b4 u make a real decision to lost yur virgin gurl
is he a trusted guy?
you are still young u noe?
2007-05-15 04:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by charlene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋