why is it that i want to see him so bad but when i actully see him i lose interest/
2007-05-15 04:15:23 · 22 answers · asked by aaaaa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fascination...In your mind you like him and imagine him as you would LOVE for him to be and can't stop thinking of him, But when your around him you see him how he really is.
2007-05-15 04:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jean f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you want to see him for what you want him to be and when you see him hes not that and that makes you lose interest ... to be hnest none of us can answer that except for you all we can do is give you ideas of why and all you can do is think about them and see which ones makes the most sense
2007-05-15 11:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by dede 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? confusing. but maybe you just miss him when he's gone and when you already see him you are already satisfied and you quickly lost your interest with him. i think that is just a mere admiration of something in him. try to figure out that one and you will eventually learn about your true feelings. goodluck!
2007-05-15 11:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by xpont 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just better to be thought of than to be seen. Kind of like the "you looked better from far away"
2007-05-15 11:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by *~*LOVE*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called hormones and watching too much TV or reading romance novels!
2007-05-15 11:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality is not what you conceived in your mind. When you see him, you are seeing the reality. Move on is my advice. Sandra
2007-05-15 11:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by None Compare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immaturity and your feeling that you have to be wanted. Then once you are wanted, you no longer have the need.
2007-05-15 11:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've built him up in your head to be really great but when you see him in person you realize he's not that great.
2007-05-15 11:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jerribear76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz you dont know what to do once you see him. And besides, maybe your just crazy. O_o
2007-05-15 11:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are building him up to be something he is not. either like him for what he is or try and find someone else! it sounds like youre trying to make him into what you really want... i would think this one over
2007-05-15 11:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋