1. Pleasure (it feels good)
2. Everyone else is, supposedly, "doing it"
3. You think you love the person, therefore, you give them everything...including your virginity
4. You never know when your going to get married "*LOL* 40 year old virgin"
5. To make babies...because everyone else is having them
6. Being in the "heat" of the moment and it just happens...aka...having little/no self-control
7. Feeling bad for the other person and doing it because they expected you to and partially because you really like them anyway...so what the hell!
8. If you get married just so that you can have sex, you might as well have premarital sex...same sin in my opinion!
9. Once you do it one time you might as well continue
2007-05-15 04:00:51
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answer #1
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answered by Silent Jay 2
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People decide to have sex before marriage because they want too! They're curious, and probably horny. There are so many reasons, not to say that it's right.. but I guess when people get into those moments with someone they feel they care about, they want to take it to the next level... sometimes without thinking about the consequences.
2007-05-15 03:55:55
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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If you concieve a baby, and you and the woman split up, the baby might end up without a father, and the woman might never know who the father is. Being in a marriage helps by making sure who is the mother and father, and If they get divorced, the woman is not allowed to get married again or have sex until 3 months have passed, to make sure she isn't pregnant from the last man. Hope I helped. Take care.
2016-05-18 21:05:34
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answer #3
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answered by tereasa 4
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cause it feels soo dang good and the reason you should have sex before hand is like this you dont buy a car with out a test drive . you need to see if you are compatable in bed . would be a short and bad marriage if the sex was bad
2007-05-15 03:55:08
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answer #4
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answered by wonderboy n 5
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Because how would you like to get married then when you have sex you find out she's got a weenie?
2007-05-15 03:57:10
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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-They are not belevers in that u have to get married first
-Those who belive it is wrong but still do it cant resist temptation
-Some ppl dont knw its wrong
I feel its wrong but still do it cause i cant resist.i FEEL GUILTY ABOUT IT ALL THE TIME.
2007-05-15 03:56:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Because they want to, and/or they don't care about the consequences.
2007-05-15 03:55:08
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answer #7
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answered by M S 7
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Hormones... lust... peer pressure... Gonads... Temptation... Revenge... Love... Lonliness... Take your pick.
2007-05-15 03:55:37
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answer #8
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answered by Sarah R 6
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perhaps the question should be why not have sex??? --- its fun and with protection safe
2007-05-15 04:05:05
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answer #9
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answered by trader1867 7
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none and it feels good.
ps i don't want to do it b4 hand and won't till im married.
2007-05-15 03:55:53
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answer #10
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answered by pistoluser 3
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