my husband doesnt like kissing or never kisses me. it hurts becouse i know im preety and everytime i go out theres always a guy flurting. what i do?
2007-05-15 03:45:47 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i haved talk to himmany times about the way i feel and cried to him. i dont like
having sex without kissing i feel incomplete i have try many ways telling
him i will leave him he will change for 2 or 3 days and be da same
2007-05-15 06:39:59 · update #1
Tell him that you won't have sex with him unless he fulfills your needs. Specifically kissing.
It's mean but likely effective :)
2007-05-15 03:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by forestpirate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, ignore the flirting guys. Second, try and find what is so repulsive to him about kissing you? Is it just because you always kiss him first? or is it deeper?
Honestly, you should've asked this question before you married him. This is exactly why premarital sex and intimacy should be required before any commitments are made.
Unfortunately, you may have to suck it up and do without the kissing. It depends on his reasoning. Has he always been like this or is it recent? You need to tell him how it makes you feel. Use tears if necessary.
2007-05-15 04:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by SONG 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart, this is your husband??? Kissing is a major factor in a relationship-- when did this stop... or did you marry him like that.
You should be used to the no kissing if this is how you married him... BUT if it started afterwards then im sorry but I would feel that one- there is someone else or two- he does not love me anymore.
This is not a normal-- this is a problem-- your husband should want to kiss you 24/7
Good luck- really!!!
2007-05-15 03:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by mperez_1122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not like kissing because of personal insecurities. Maybe he thinks he's a bad kisser. Maybe somebody insulted his kissing once. Talk to him and find out what's going on there, so you can address the problem.
2007-05-15 03:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and find out why he won't kiss you. I'd be pretty upset, too... Is it that he started out a kisser and then just stopped? Or he NEVER has been a kisser and you're sick of it? If he's never been enthusiastic about kissing, it could be that he doesn't like it. Tons of people don't kiss because they think it's gross (mouth germs and all).
2007-05-15 03:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what; I love my husband with all my heart and soul, but I don't like kissing either, and he is one fine, sexy, attractive $@* you know what I'm talking about girl. LOL! That means nothing, some people just don't like to kiss that's all. Again I'm not a kisser but I love my man!
2007-05-15 03:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually there was a question like this in Saturdays Times .
Some nmen do not like kissing even thoughn they wil performm oral sex . Get hold of the colour section of the Times and read . that is unless you are american and then it might be difficult .
Ask him if its a mouth hygiene thing
2007-05-15 03:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad way the same way with my mom, he never kissed us or tell us that he loved us..just show his love with money & buying everything for us. my mom sat down & talked with him & told him what was up if he wasn't going to make a change. He did later in life but at least he did it.
2007-05-15 03:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you marry someone if a fundamental part of what you require in a relationship is not there?
Have you discussed it? Told him it's important to you?
What are his reasons? He may have a valid reason that you don't know about, or he may be an insensitive jerk, I don't know.
But the fault that is yours is in not figuring this out before saying "I Do".
2007-05-15 03:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by TNCreature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a lot of these answers. It is not about YOU.
Stop thinking that you need people to pay attention to you and notice you in order for you to have confidence. Be very careful about getting caught up with these people who are flirting. At best, they are
I do think talking about it is important. For all we know, he has germ phobia.
2007-05-15 04:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i would do is just dress my best...let him see that he iss not the only one you can get.... also i would show my sad side...hes probably going to ask you why you are like that....i would tell him all my feelings...if thta does not work tell him dat you are not sure if the man that you married loves you like you still do......hopefully this helps!!!! sorry
2007-05-15 03:52:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋