Fellas..Lets say you broke it off with your girl..but deep down you know you love her..your friends know you love her....she used to be your world...your entire family knows her..would you eventually call..or what would you think if she called you..to speak about and to work it out..
2007-05-15 03:38:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he broke it off over something stupid..and i think his friends was there.so he wants to seem manly in front them..plus i guess i was messsing up his high..(smoking weed)..thst what he told me..
2007-05-15 03:56:21 · update #1
i stuck by him..was soo good to him..damn him..
2007-05-15 04:00:43 · update #2
He might not be ready for you. That's the bottom line. When someone loves you and knows you love them, then they break it off. They are just not ready for the type of relationship that has developed. Thier only option of "survival" is break it off altogether. I know it sucks. I had one break it off with me, two days after she tells me she loves me for the first time.
Love is twisted. Love is evil. But love is the most wonderful feeling in the world. Just be happy that you know how he feels and when he's ready, he'll come back.
Don't push too hard. Give him his space, else you risk pushing him into someone else's arms.
People tend to want things they can not have. When they get it, they no longer want it as bad. That's the sad part. I can't possibly understand why people do this. It really makes a mess of your heart. But you know what? All you can do is be the person you are. Don't think that by changing how you act, how you look, how you feel, will solve the problem. Just be the wonderful woman that you are and you will get yours. If it's not with this guy, so be it.
You have to feel and believe that you deserve the best. The best will find it's way to you!
So, no.... don't call him. Let him do the chasing. When he's ready. If he's not.... It's his loss... not yours!
2007-05-15 03:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 2 years removed from a 7 year relationship. I still love her very much, despite knowing she's found a new companion. Our split was not motivated by any hostility or deprivation of emotion. Our paths just no longer paralleled after college. Sure, there were times of vulnerability and resisting contact was extremely tough, especially during holidays. I knew if I called her, I wouldn't be able to interpret my emotions anymore than just missing her .... confusing the matter.
Seems my life goals are always at odds with my relationships.
2007-05-15 03:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's assume your correct on this. If your my whole world,Why did i break it off? If i loved you,Wouldn't i call? Friends may have thought that we make a great couple, But still other peoples opinions don't count when the heart has been hurt. What did you do to cause him to want to break it off? His entire family may love you, But their not the ones your wanting is it? Look at it from his point of view and figure out what went wrong. You need to talk to him either way. You have to fix the problem or get closure. I wish you well..
2007-05-15 03:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl's feelings as well, if she left with an angry face or if I knew that she's really mad at me and that she hates me, then I wouldn't call, but if I know that it was temporary anger and that she loved me back, then I would call her to ask if we could meet up again sometime and i'd bring her something that she's always wanted as a materialistic way of saying that i'm truly sorry and that she means more to me than anyone and else.
2007-05-15 03:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by advent-seph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would depend on why it was broken off. Let's see, She was his world and he broke it off. She must have done something very bad - like had an affair....? Is that what happened?
He probably will love her for a while. But he now has the oppertunity to find someone who can love him back.
Leave him alone and move on.
2007-05-15 03:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Collette L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That question depends on too many factors to give it a good answer. Like why did I break it off? How long ago was this? Is there someone else in my life now?
2007-05-15 03:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how it ended. If he broke it off with you then don't call, let him realize what he's lost. It may take a while but he will. If you're calling him and pursuing him it won't be like he lost anything.
2007-05-15 03:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would all depend on why I left her in the first place. For me if it was something like she was cheating on me then I wouldn't want her to call and I would just want to greive and get over her and eventually move on. If it was something like a fight or dissagreement over something that led to splitting then I would definately try and call and would be overjoyed if she called me wanting to mend things.
2007-05-15 03:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on why you broke it off. Like, if she cheated but you still loved her...no way don't call. If you broke up because her friends didn't like you ...YES call and tell me that I am more important.
Hope it helps.
2007-05-15 03:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by db14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probaly reconsider what happened and why i broke up with her in the first place then if i liked her that much i would try to get hooked back up.
2007-05-15 03:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋