I am currently pregnant and the my boyfriend is super excited to be a Daddy. His brother has his wedding this weekend and his family kept asking us if there would be another wedding soon. He kept saying maybe and smiling. In privite he told me that he was planning his time to ask me, after I told him that I was uncomfortable with them asking.
He has told him best friends mom that he was going to marry me. Is he just saying it or does he mean it.
The only reason i doubt it is that he has been saying it for 2 months now .
HELP?!
2007-05-15 03:33:45 · 28 answers · asked by Kiki (Koatic) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 months is nothing in "guy years". If you have other reasons for doubt, then thats a different story, but if the 2 month delay is your issue then sit tight for a little while and it will probably happen soon.
2007-05-15 03:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by mark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are currently pregnant (assuming more than 2 months) and he has made no move to propose or set a date, I doubt that he is planning on a marriage anytime soon. Please remember too, that just because you are pregnant does not mean that you should race out and get married. That is why so many marriages fail and there is no need to bring together a union that will create an uncomfortable environment for your child "just for the babies' sake". Good luck to you.
2007-05-15 10:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kwk2lrn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's stalling time to find out if that's what he really wants to do. He's probably going through the whole "I'm about to be a dad, so soon I wont have as much of a social life, so I'm gonna try to enjoy time before the baby comes, then play my role as a daddy and husband." If he doesnt do it before the baby is born, he will after! I can gaurantee that. Especially with the emotions he will feel and the connection you both will feel once you see what you've created together. You'll be aight. Hopefully it works out for ya
2007-05-15 10:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that is a big step for any man to take. It's a good thing he is taking his time, instead of jumping into such a big commitment and it blowing up in both your faces. Let him be and when he is ready he will either do it or not. If he does it great but if he changes his mind dont get mad at him. He probably feels its not best to get married right now. He has his reasons which means he respects you and has put your feelings into consideration. He doesn't want to hurt you and so thats why he is taking his time. If he has told you he is then trust in him. And let his actions speak for themselves.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-05-15 10:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by Misunderstood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be secure in yourself because in the end YOU are the only person you can rely on. None of us know your boyfriend, to know if he is just leading you on or if maybe he is waiting until his brothers wedding day is over with to ask you. Who knows? That child, before anyone else, will rely on you! I know...I have been married with children and I have also been a single parent. Make your happiness for you and your baby and what is to be will be.
2007-05-15 10:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ShadySadie♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient honey, maybe he's planning the perfect proposal or saving for a ring. But I doubt he would tell everyone (including you) that you will be getting married when he has no such intentions. Just relax and enjoy the pregnancy and the knowledge that you will have your prince soon enough. :)
2007-05-15 10:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by margiems78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fret sweetheart, 2 months is not that long for a man to ask you to marry him. There is a lot that needs to be considered. Maybe he's saving up for a ring? If he's telling people he's gonna ask you , I think he will.
2007-05-15 10:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably means it but is taking a little while to plan the perfect proposal for you and you should just let him take his time with it so that you can have that most memorable experience possible. Dont rush him, it'll all happen in good time.
2007-05-15 10:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is biding his time to save money for the ring. Most guys don't have the money in the bank and need time to save. I would wait a little while longer before getting impatient.
Good luck!
2007-05-15 10:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by star_lite57 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him, I think he probably does love you, but taking that next step is hard for him! Come out and pop the question to him. If he doesn't go alright let's do it, then he is really not serious!
Good Luck! I wish a safe pregnancy!
2007-05-15 10:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by fjerseyman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋