I keep having multople dreams that are different, but alike. I keep dreaming that I am getting married to men that I don't know or don't love or like enough to marry. I almost feel like I am being forced to get married. But I always call it off either the day of the wedding or during the ceremony. I don't even plan the weedings, they are already set by someone else and its usually horrible. I have no idea where these dreams are coming from or what they mean. I have never been engaged or proposed to. Its starting to scare me because they happen more and more. I am only 21 and really haven't been in many relationships. Anybody know what they mean?
2007-05-15 03:20:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Well, this dream is about relationship. You have some fear in commitment and subconsciously you project marriage to be a failed one. In other words, your subconscious mind tried to pre-determine the worse scenario for yourself so that you will feel what is like to be in a relationship.
Yes, you may not be involved with any relationship. However, that dream tells you that you have this fear. It may be because of your family ground, or friends you heard of or even movie, drama you watched.
Dreaming of men you don't like to marry is also another sense of denial of committing responsibilities. Deep down, you are afraid to commit. This is coming out from your subconscious mind.
2007-05-15 03:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, 21 is a milestone year just as turning 30, 40, 50...it can be stressful.
You are looking forward to what is expected next in life and that usually means marriage. You aren't ready for that but you feel pressured in some way, hence the dream.
Once you realize that it is ok to date different guys until you find the right one and in the mean time just have fun the forced marriage dreams will stop.
sweet dreams.
2007-05-15 10:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be linked to how you feel subconsciously. Like if you constantly feel that you're being organised all the time and forced into things you have no control over.
The fact that you are stopping the weddings could signify that you are managing to stop this or want to....
just guessing!
2007-05-15 10:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by chili pepper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My indecision is my decision, no choice is a choice, if you don’t find and decide who you are going to marry the choice will be made for you soon, or that is what you fear. I would say make a choice, but hard to say dreams are so personal, and I know nothing about you.
2007-05-15 11:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by grey_worms 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
check out this online site..hope it helps! Sounds like u are maybe wanting stability or a long term commitment...whether it be love or career etc.
2007-05-15 10:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋